Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Do people who cheat for sex only make up and break up for years on end?

Q. If you were going back and forth for 2 years, then don't talk for a year, but still jump at a chance to be together every day even when it's been so long, does that mean it's a lasting bond?

Do people who cheat for sex alone go back and forth like that? Opinions?

A. People who cheat for sex cheat for sex. They take it wherever and whenever it is available. That's it.

How do Mexican men act in a relationship/what do they expect from their girlfriend?
Q. I'm interested in knowing how Mexican men feel about the following topics (when in a relationship with a woman)

-"Machoism" (i've been hearing a lot about this)
-Cooking/cleaning
-Love and affection
-Cheating
-Sex
-Children
-Marriage
-Family
-Religion



I know cultures differ so I'm just trying to understand what my boyfriend is looking for from me/how he feels about these subjects!

A. Why don't you just ask your boyfriend what he wants from you?

Am I the only one who finds cheating amusing and fun?
Q. It is like a game to me. I'm only upset because I haven't done it in awhile. I dated my partner for over 2 years, and during that time had another long term partner plus cheated with 5 other people. I think it's funny and I would do it more because my partner is an @ss. But I have some attachment to my partner because its convenient. When I find someone else steady, my current will be disposed like trash though. People make too much of a big deal of cheating. Sex with the same person gets boring. Dealing with their crap gets boring. Having a secret side dish makes it bearable. Everyone thinks about it, at least I have the guts to do it.

I also enjoy controlling my partner's life.

A. Maybe your psychologist finds cheating amusing and fun too.



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Sunday, February 10, 2013

How do I get my brother to shut the fuck up?

Q. My brother does nothing but play shooting games online with people he seems to hate very much. How do I get him to shut the fuck up? I once told him to his face that I would kill him in his sleep (yes, i know, threats aren't nice, but i was so upset i didn't know completely what i was saying... ) and he hit me. Am I just doomed to have an asshole for a brother??

A. You can't get him to shut up, unfortunately. If you have already tried talking to him about the noise, then he's probably not going to do anything. I have 2 older brothers who are a$$holes. One of them is 30 f*cking years old, he chooses to be unemployed, and he still plays video games. He's not loud when he plays, but he slams his bedroom door several times a day. He is so inconsiderate. I've asked him to be quiet. He picked a fight with me when I wrote a polite note that said, "Could you please be quiet and not slam your door?" I had to write a note because he rarely ever talks to me. His response was to back me into a corner and yell, "F*ck you!" Never in my life has anyone said that to me. He hasn't hit me since we were kids, but if I hadn't told him to leave me alone, he would have hit me. Eventually, he apologized, but he still won't shut up. He refuses to change.
If your bro doesn't want to be quiet, then there's nothing you can do.

How would you feel if you crush said fuck you when you joked with him?
Q. ok, i joked with my crush & he said fuck you ... how would you feel if some1 said that .... & did he say that to me because we are closed ? or any other answers?

A. I don't know why you feel the urge to use such words in polite company.


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How to initiate the fuck buddy in high school relationship.?
Q. There us this gel in my high school who is so hot but I would never date her. I would just have sex with her. She is always being mean to me like saying ur a creep. So i make fun of her back. How do I change this into a fuck buddy relationship. Like I can drive by myself and stuff. How would I go about offering to drive her? Please no trolls or mean comments

A. Be flank 2her ad be expecting anythng from her



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What does it mean to love someone unconditionally? Is it better to be loved unconditionally?

Q. If a person is loved regardless of their actions, beliefs, attributes, and conditions, can that love not simply have gone to someone different? Is it not a greater honor to be loved for who you are? Is it better to have your love at risk than to love, unconditionally, recklessly, and randomly?

A. I love my boyfriend unconditionally. That means: I love him for who he is and the decisions he makes, the things he does, how he grows and who he becomes. It doesn't mean I can love anyone. It means I love him and respect his views, his attributes and personality. Unconditionally means I wont walk out on him for dumb reasons. It means I'll listen to what he says and if we have problems I'll try to work it out. It means I won't hurt him or hurt his feelings. It means i won't leave him for any dumb reason. It means I dont want to leave him. It means I can tell him anything and listen to anything he says. It means he's the love of my life, my soulmate and I'll stick with him no matter what. It means he's an amazing little dude and I know him well enough to know I dont want to love anyone else but him :)

How has your love for others made you a better person?
Q. Some people can pick and choose who they love; they seek a balance or a rewarding experience for both paties.
Some people appear to express agape; they try to love everybody in some way, though that's often impossible.
Some people are narcissistic; they cannot love anyone as much as they love themselves.

In what way(s) has your love for others (or lack of it) given you a sense of self-worth?

A. My love for others has helped me get through life. I can't hate people for some reason. I just wasn't made to hate them I guess. It helps me get through life letting people know I love them and care. I don't think it is impossible to love everyone in some way. I'm pretty sure I can love everyone in some way.

My dad which has never been there for him I love him more than ever, because I found out that my mother kept me away from him which I love her as well, because she raised me right. She has taken my daughter from me, but I still love her. Okay if you knew every person in my life you could ask me why I love every one of them.

How has your love for others made you a better person?
Q. Some people can pick and choose who they love; they seek a balance or a rewarding experience for both paties.
Some people appear to express agape; they try to love everybody in some way, though that's often impossible.
Some people are narcissistic; they cannot love anyone as much as they love themselves.

In what way(s) has your love for others (or lack of it) given you a sense of self-worth?

A. One of the biggest things that loving others has taught me was a sense of selflessness. Just like when you love your job or an activity you put everything into and you go really hard the whole time. For me that same thing happens when I truly love someone. I am totally selfless and I put my all into a person so that I can have the best outcome possible. Having different experiences where I step outside of the usually selfish person that I am and I am able to give more than I usually do has allowed me to see how much I can do and all that I can attain if I am dedicated and devoted to something or someone.



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What are some reallllly good romance with a good cheating plot?

Q. Any suggestions, preferably books with lies, cheating ,love, sex, ect. all in one.

A. Broken by Megan Hart.

Wonderfully sensual with all the depth for a great romance novel.

Features emotional cheating as opposed to physical cheating but if all you are looking for is well-written sex scenes, you don't need to look any further.

Do married men ever get tired of having sex with the same person?
Q. What do you think> I heard one man say this is why they cheat because aint nothing like new... new person to sleep with. he told me if not all, most guys will cheat because sex.

A. Only a small %age cheat just for sex. Those that do will always cheat.

Most men cheat because they are not having all their emotional needs met at home. And then they find a friend who makes them feel good about themselves, inflates their ego, and is only there for the good times (not the 'take out the trash' normal every day stuff times). They start to look like the better option.

My hubby hasn't cheated on me, and i'd be SO shocked if he did. I always talk to him, and make sure he's happy, and he knows i am always in his corner. And i also put in the effort and make sure we have an active sex life. I realize it is a need for males, and i also enjoy it.

I concur with the comment about dying our hair. Guys fantasize as much as women do. A different hair color can be a helpful prop for them. ;)

God says marriage is forever and the only cause for divorce is?
Q. in the bible what are the only reasonable things that can cause a marriage to end. what makes divorce okay... cheating? emotional abuse? physical abuse? nothing? and if cheating is a good enough reason for divorce what qualifies as cheating? sex? kissing? date and holding hands? chatting with other women on dating websites and claiming that you are single and looking for someone to start a family with? i need to know what the bible says please

A. There are many causes for divorce; abuse, committing adultery, etc...

"What qualifies as cheating?"

Jesus says that if a man looks upon a woman with lust than he has committed adultery with her in his heart. So cheating is the mere desire/lusting for any woman other than your wife.

When a man and woman divorce, though, they cannot remarry - unless one of them have died. Jesus, I can't remember where at this exact moment, condemned the pharisees for divorcing their wives and making adulterers out of them (because the only way a woman could survive in that culture is if they were either daughters or wives - and therefore would have to remarry if their husband divorced them)... I THINK that in some instances, like this one, one spouse may carry more blame than the other if there is divorce.



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How to get rid of my fuck buddy?

Q. I have been fuck buddies with this guy for a real long time, and I want to break it off. The problem is he has an anger problem sometimes and I don't know how he will react. Please help me.

A. Take weed works wonder :-)

Where to find good looking guys to be fuck buddies?
Q. So. Yes im a guy and I considered myself all my life to be bi sexual. But the problem is that ive never explored my male to male relatioship side of my bisexuality. So the actual question is where can I find a good looking guys willing to be fuck buddies? They have to be muscular.tall.blonde or not black but drake sorta color. Have long dicks. Sixpacks. And a good face. Any ideas. And I wanna keep this anonymous.

A. craigslist
adam4adam
grindr
Manhunt

What do you say when your ex boyfriend tells you he's sad because he thinks hes a fuck up?
Q. My ex boyfriend hates life and I want him to feel better about himself even tho he is kinda a fuck up I want to help him feel better! Help!!!

A. He is not your responsibility. He is your ex. If he doesn't want to be a fuck up, then he is the one who needs to clean up his act, not you.



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Tuesday, February 5, 2013