Q. "Making love" sounds like it has more of an emotional component to it, whereas "having sex" sounds like it is just relief for horny-ness. But what's the actual difference? For example, does "making love" include more foreplay? Is it followed by cuddling afterwards? Could you describe a typical "lovemaking" session and a typical "sex" session?
Also, which is more enjoyable?
Any answers will be appreciated :)
Also, which is more enjoyable?
Any answers will be appreciated :)
A. To me making love means that you have an emotional attachment towards the person. That you care deeply about them and sex is more enjoyable because your both very much into it. You make love to show affection not just get your hornyness out. It can last long and it's very connecting. You feel closer to the person afterwords and are overcome with emotions that you feel for eachother.
Having sex is just like what you said... To get your hornyness out. Usually it's a quickie and you don't have that much of an attachment to the person. Usually it doesn't involve cuddling like making love, but can include some foreplay.
To me making love is so much more enjoyable. Me and my man for instance have sex or quickies and it's not as much enjoyable as making love. I feel so lived and cared for by him and just could feel the rest of my life with him to be something I desperatly crave. I also tend to smile a lot afterwords lol.
Making love session;
Long foreplay
Sex
Cuddling
Emotional overwhelmness.
Sex session;
Short foreplay if any
Sex
Could include some cuddling
Having sex is just like what you said... To get your hornyness out. Usually it's a quickie and you don't have that much of an attachment to the person. Usually it doesn't involve cuddling like making love, but can include some foreplay.
To me making love is so much more enjoyable. Me and my man for instance have sex or quickies and it's not as much enjoyable as making love. I feel so lived and cared for by him and just could feel the rest of my life with him to be something I desperatly crave. I also tend to smile a lot afterwords lol.
Making love session;
Long foreplay
Sex
Cuddling
Emotional overwhelmness.
Sex session;
Short foreplay if any
Sex
Could include some cuddling
What's the difference between having sex and making love?
Q. "Making love" sounds like it has more of an emotional component to it, whereas "having sex" sounds like it is just relief for horny-ness. But what's the actual difference? For example, does "making love" include more foreplay? Is it followed by cuddling afterwards? Could you describe a typical "lovemaking" session and a typical "sex" session?
Also, which is more enjoyable?
Any answers will be appreciated :)
Also, which is more enjoyable?
Any answers will be appreciated :)
A. Sex having it, getting up and leaving. There is no tenderness, no attachment.
Making love means what it says. You two are connected, have a relationship (marriage hopefully) and you can trust the person not to tell friends and family what goes on between you too. Mutual trust and true love.
Look it at this way:
Would you like a hot dog or a fine 6 course meal?
Hot dog = sex
Fine Restaurant 6 course meal = the good stuff:)
Making love means what it says. You two are connected, have a relationship (marriage hopefully) and you can trust the person not to tell friends and family what goes on between you too. Mutual trust and true love.
Look it at this way:
Would you like a hot dog or a fine 6 course meal?
Hot dog = sex
Fine Restaurant 6 course meal = the good stuff:)
What is the difference between "making love" and regular sex?
Q. My boyfriend and I are intimate together and he is enjoying our emotional connection. Recently he said he wants to experience "making love" for the 1st time with me.
We've already had sex and when I asked him what he envisioned he wasn't sure. I'm not sure either!
I imagine we'll create a romantic setting and engage in more eye contact and take a slower pace.
Any other suggestions?
We've already had sex and when I asked him what he envisioned he wasn't sure. I'm not sure either!
I imagine we'll create a romantic setting and engage in more eye contact and take a slower pace.
Any other suggestions?
A. Hi Mommygirl13
You want to know the difference between making love and having sex?
Having sex is when two people use one another to reach orgasim.
Making love is when two people give to one another unconditionally in order to give pleasure to the other. In reality it doesnt really happen, for the act of love making as we call it, is an egoistic, not an altruistic act. We may fool ourselves that we do it for them, but if we did not want it for ourselves, we could not move a muscle.
Love is the ultimate expression of our egoism, and sex is the ultimate pleasure we can experience in this world.
Altruistic love: http://www.kabbalah.info/engkab/life-love-family/kabbalah-relationships?p_options=1#fairytale-love-is-just-that--e2-80-93-a-fairytale
Why is sex so important? http://www.kabbalah.info/engkab/life-love-family/kabbalah-relationships?p_options=2#why-are-we-so-preoccupied-with-sex-3f
I hope this helps
Shalom
Mem
You want to know the difference between making love and having sex?
Having sex is when two people use one another to reach orgasim.
Making love is when two people give to one another unconditionally in order to give pleasure to the other. In reality it doesnt really happen, for the act of love making as we call it, is an egoistic, not an altruistic act. We may fool ourselves that we do it for them, but if we did not want it for ourselves, we could not move a muscle.
Love is the ultimate expression of our egoism, and sex is the ultimate pleasure we can experience in this world.
Altruistic love: http://www.kabbalah.info/engkab/life-love-family/kabbalah-relationships?p_options=1#fairytale-love-is-just-that--e2-80-93-a-fairytale
Why is sex so important? http://www.kabbalah.info/engkab/life-love-family/kabbalah-relationships?p_options=2#why-are-we-so-preoccupied-with-sex-3f
I hope this helps
Shalom
Mem
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