Monday, April 29, 2013

How has your love for others made you a better person?

Q. Some people can pick and choose who they love; they seek a balance or a rewarding experience for both paties.
Some people appear to express agape; they try to love everybody in some way, though that's often impossible.
Some people are narcissistic; they cannot love anyone as much as they love themselves.

In what way(s) has your love for others (or lack of it) given you a sense of self-worth?

A. My love for others has helped me get through life. I can't hate people for some reason. I just wasn't made to hate them I guess. It helps me get through life letting people know I love them and care. I don't think it is impossible to love everyone in some way. I'm pretty sure I can love everyone in some way.

My dad which has never been there for him I love him more than ever, because I found out that my mother kept me away from him which I love her as well, because she raised me right. She has taken my daughter from me, but I still love her. Okay if you knew every person in my life you could ask me why I love every one of them.

How has your love for others made you a better person?
Q. Some people can pick and choose who they love; they seek a balance or a rewarding experience for both paties.
Some people appear to express agape; they try to love everybody in some way, though that's often impossible.
Some people are narcissistic; they cannot love anyone as much as they love themselves.

In what way(s) has your love for others (or lack of it) given you a sense of self-worth?

A. One of the biggest things that loving others has taught me was a sense of selflessness. Just like when you love your job or an activity you put everything into and you go really hard the whole time. For me that same thing happens when I truly love someone. I am totally selfless and I put my all into a person so that I can have the best outcome possible. Having different experiences where I step outside of the usually selfish person that I am and I am able to give more than I usually do has allowed me to see how much I can do and all that I can attain if I am dedicated and devoted to something or someone.

What's the difference between loving your boyfriend but not being in love with your boyfriend?
Q. I know you can love your family and friends but not in a "couple' way. But how can you know when you actually love your husband/boyfriend, but not really inlove with him?

Should you marry someone if you love them but not in love with them? Can it work?

A. I wouldn't marry someone if I loved them in a brotherly way. Marriage is a sacred thing and if the person doesn't feel right then don't go through with it. If you were in love with someone, it could def. come back again if you work at it.



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Friday, April 12, 2013

How many days should I have sex after a positive ovulation test?

Q. Hello,
I had sex on 7/12. I got a positive ovulation test on 7/13. We had sex on 7/13 and 7/14 and will have sex today. Do you think that I have a good chance?

A. Sounds like you have timed it all very well.
If this cycle isn't successful then next month you can try and just have sex every second day and not test for Ovulation so you never feel 'pressured' while your TTC.

Having sex everyday does make the sperm not as strong for the long journey they have ahead of them to the F/T. Males produce more sperm everytime they ejaculate. They should ideally have about 36hours to let the sperm grow big and strong for the journey so sometimes it is better to have sex every 48 hours not every 24 hours. Because you want the sperm to be as strong as possible so you have a better chance of getting pregnant.

How do you write a good sex scene and what are some examples of good sex scenes?
Q. I'm trying to write a sex scene (obviously, from the question). I'm not sure how to write a good one and as I plan on having someone else read it, I want it to be...good. I've heard that you should write what you know, but I've never had sex so I can't really do that.
Also, some examples of good sex scenes would be nice. Links or whatever. I'm planning on mine being female dominant, if that information helps.

A. The scene in Mad Men where Betty Draper has sex with the washing machine.. that was some serious action.

How important is sex in your relationship?
Q. I've seen a lot of people remark that sex has zero importance in a relationship but I just don't see it. I like sex and it's a must for me. It's a stress reliever and a way to be connected to someone physically. How could anyone say that's not important.

So I ask you, how important is it to your relationship?

A. Sex is very important.

Sex when you're not in a relationship is fun.

Sex when you're in a relationship is fun, connecting and bonding on a deeper level. Sex with someone you love is always the best sex.



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Tuesday, April 9, 2013

how do you know for certain a bitch has finished her heat period?

Q. My bitch is 12 days into her heat period. This is my 1st ever bitch in heat so I'm not sure what are the 100% certain signs I should be looking for.

A. It normally lasts for around 3 weeks, so if this is her 12th day she's still got maybe a week to go.
The blood loss will stop and her vulva which will have swollen will return to normal, also any boy dogs will lose all interest in her, at least for another 6 months.

Where is the bitch seat and the hump seat?
Q. The seats in the car confuse me. I know there is The driver and next to that is the shot gun but that is all I know. Where is the wingman, the backseat driver, the bitch seat and the hump? The trunk is obviously in the trunk. Can someone please help me?
And why do people never want the bitch/hump seat? Whats so bad about it?

A. The bitch seat is the rear seat on a motorcycle. If that term has been applied to cars, this is the first I've heard of it.

Guys: would you find a girl less physically attractive if she was a bitch to you?
Q. Say you are really attracted to her, but things aren't working out. She's been a complete bitch to you. Would you hate her, but still not be able to deny she's attractive or would she appear less attractive to you completely?

A. If she was always a bitch to me then she wouldnt get in ym pants in the first place... but if she did then i'd probably hate her but love screwing her and letting all that hate out in the process. angry sex... is amazing



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Friday, March 15, 2013

How do the love calculators on the internet actually work?

Q. The love calculators all have different calculations. How do they work?

A. They work by performing advanced calculations based on a comparison of user input to known love standards. The reason they all have different calculations is that several renowned authorities have each proposed their own set of love standards.

For instance love calculators based on Alexander Nestor's popular treatise "What is love?", base their calculations on the apparent force of the user's input, as Nestor's theory largely purports that love causes or is capable of causing pain. This method of love calculation is typically referred to as "The H.A.D.D.A.W.A.Y. Method".

What is the difference between love and like?
Q. Love for me is loving a person with commitment and like means just being happy seeing the one you adore. How about you?

A. Ann Landers wrote this column many years ago and it answers you question.

Is It Love or Infatuation?

Infatuation is fleeting desire -- one set of glands calling to another. It is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager but not genuinely happy. There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about the relationship that you would just as soon not examine too closely. It might spoil the dream.

Love is friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a time. Love is quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection. It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you -- to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by his presence, even when he is away. Miles do not separate you. You have so many wonderful films in your head that you keep replaying. But near or far, you know he is yours, and you can wait.

Infatuation says, "We must get married right away. I can't risk losing him." Love says, "Be patient. Don't panic. Plan your future with confidence."

Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. Whenever you are together, you hope it will end in intimacy.

Love is not based on sex. It is the maturation of friendship that makes sex so much sweeter. You must be friends before you can be lovers.

Infatuation lacks confidence. When he's away, you wonder if he's being unfaithful. Sometimes, you check.

Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. He feels your trust, and it makes him even more trustworthy.

Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret, but love never steers you in the wrong direction.

Love is elevating. It lifts you up. It makes you look up. It makes you better than you were before.

How is love and sacrifice represented in Pride and Prejudice?
Q. What is the impact of love and sacrifice on the main characters? What is the author the Pride and Prejudice suggesting about love and sacrifice?
What would be a good thesis statement for these questions?

A. A basic theme of the story, one could argue, is that love conquers all. Thinking about it in terms of that particular society, Darcy and Elizabeth shouldn't have ended up together. He was well off, she was poor. He was upper class, had family connections, and was high up in society. She had no connections, had a family full of "silly" sisters and parents, and wasn't too much in the company of high society. But, despite all the odds against them- family, wealth, their individual pride and prejudices, they ended up together. And why? Because they fought for each other. They fought for a true love that they both deserved.

Darcy sacrifices his pride by paying for Lydia's shotgun wedding with Wickham. Though he despises the man, he patches up the marriage in order to protect Lydia, which ultimately protects Elizabeth, because then her family isn't tainted with the scandal. We think Darcy has overcome his pride when he first proposes to Elizabeth, but he hasn't done that completely yet: he tells her, rather condescendingly, that he wishes he didn't like her because it's imprudent for a man of his connection to love someone so beneath him. Ouch, can you say mean much?

Elizabeth, on the other hand, gets the benefit of this match in its social and financial aspects. You'd think she doesn't give up much, but she does. She too sacrifices her pride, admitting that her first impressions of Mr. Darcy were very wrong, and that he was a much better man than she gave him credit for. She also admits to falling under Wickham's spell and feels bad that she fell for his facade.

That's what I have to say on it, really. Hope it helps.



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Saturday, March 9, 2013

What's the difference between making love and f*cking?

Q. Like, how do you know if someone is making love to you or just plain having sex/f*cking you?

A. it's all in the mind of the beholder.
making love is like making a strong emotional connection to a person, you know that the person your with will love you forever and you will love them, the great thing is that when your making love you don't care that you don't organism, your happy with the closeness, and your more focused on the one you love.
fucking is alot different, it can be done with anyone, and you care more about the physical and how to get what you want.

Whats the difference between making love or sex?
Q. Whats the difference ?i kmow making love is wen yu really love someone etc etc.. .me nd my bf been together for 2 months to early to say love yet but we rlly like eachother we already had im 17 btw . .

A. For me I feel making love is combined with sex, but more cuddling and kissing and touching rather than just having sex and then finishing quickly. Love is more of a feeling of a connection while having sex. Some people will say they had a connection while having sex, which for me symbolizes making love. If that makes any sense.

Please answer mine would really appreciate it
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What's the difference between having sex and making love?
Q. "Making love" sounds like it has more of an emotional component to it, whereas "having sex" sounds like it is just relief for horny-ness. But what's the actual difference? For example, does "making love" include more foreplay? Is it followed by cuddling afterwards? Could you describe a typical "lovemaking" session and a typical "sex" session?

Also, which is more enjoyable?

Any answers will be appreciated :)

A. To me making love means that you have an emotional attachment towards the person. That you care deeply about them and sex is more enjoyable because your both very much into it. You make love to show affection not just get your hornyness out. It can last long and it's very connecting. You feel closer to the person afterwords and are overcome with emotions that you feel for eachother.

Having sex is just like what you said... To get your hornyness out. Usually it's a quickie and you don't have that much of an attachment to the person. Usually it doesn't involve cuddling like making love, but can include some foreplay.

To me making love is so much more enjoyable. Me and my man for instance have sex or quickies and it's not as much enjoyable as making love. I feel so lived and cared for by him and just could feel the rest of my life with him to be something I desperatly crave. I also tend to smile a lot afterwords lol.

Making love session;
Long foreplay
Sex
Cuddling
Emotional overwhelmness.

Sex session;
Short foreplay if any
Sex
Could include some cuddling



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Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Do people who cheat for sex only make up and break up for years on end?

Q. If you were going back and forth for 2 years, then don't talk for a year, but still jump at a chance to be together every day even when it's been so long, does that mean it's a lasting bond?

Do people who cheat for sex alone go back and forth like that? Opinions?

A. People who cheat for sex cheat for sex. They take it wherever and whenever it is available. That's it.

How do Mexican men act in a relationship/what do they expect from their girlfriend?
Q. I'm interested in knowing how Mexican men feel about the following topics (when in a relationship with a woman)

-"Machoism" (i've been hearing a lot about this)
-Cooking/cleaning
-Love and affection
-Cheating
-Sex
-Children
-Marriage
-Family
-Religion



I know cultures differ so I'm just trying to understand what my boyfriend is looking for from me/how he feels about these subjects!

A. Why don't you just ask your boyfriend what he wants from you?

Am I the only one who finds cheating amusing and fun?
Q. It is like a game to me. I'm only upset because I haven't done it in awhile. I dated my partner for over 2 years, and during that time had another long term partner plus cheated with 5 other people. I think it's funny and I would do it more because my partner is an @ss. But I have some attachment to my partner because its convenient. When I find someone else steady, my current will be disposed like trash though. People make too much of a big deal of cheating. Sex with the same person gets boring. Dealing with their crap gets boring. Having a secret side dish makes it bearable. Everyone thinks about it, at least I have the guts to do it.

I also enjoy controlling my partner's life.

A. Maybe your psychologist finds cheating amusing and fun too.



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Sunday, February 10, 2013

How do I get my brother to shut the fuck up?

Q. My brother does nothing but play shooting games online with people he seems to hate very much. How do I get him to shut the fuck up? I once told him to his face that I would kill him in his sleep (yes, i know, threats aren't nice, but i was so upset i didn't know completely what i was saying... ) and he hit me. Am I just doomed to have an asshole for a brother??

A. You can't get him to shut up, unfortunately. If you have already tried talking to him about the noise, then he's probably not going to do anything. I have 2 older brothers who are a$$holes. One of them is 30 f*cking years old, he chooses to be unemployed, and he still plays video games. He's not loud when he plays, but he slams his bedroom door several times a day. He is so inconsiderate. I've asked him to be quiet. He picked a fight with me when I wrote a polite note that said, "Could you please be quiet and not slam your door?" I had to write a note because he rarely ever talks to me. His response was to back me into a corner and yell, "F*ck you!" Never in my life has anyone said that to me. He hasn't hit me since we were kids, but if I hadn't told him to leave me alone, he would have hit me. Eventually, he apologized, but he still won't shut up. He refuses to change.
If your bro doesn't want to be quiet, then there's nothing you can do.

How would you feel if you crush said fuck you when you joked with him?
Q. ok, i joked with my crush & he said fuck you ... how would you feel if some1 said that .... & did he say that to me because we are closed ? or any other answers?

A. I don't know why you feel the urge to use such words in polite company.


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How to initiate the fuck buddy in high school relationship.?
Q. There us this gel in my high school who is so hot but I would never date her. I would just have sex with her. She is always being mean to me like saying ur a creep. So i make fun of her back. How do I change this into a fuck buddy relationship. Like I can drive by myself and stuff. How would I go about offering to drive her? Please no trolls or mean comments

A. Be flank 2her ad be expecting anythng from her



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