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Thursday, December 8, 2016

The child sex trade is booming in this Kenyan port city

Inside a tiny house outside the city of Mombasa on the Indian Ocean coast of Kenya, 11-year-old Sabina sits on a bed, one of her breasts exposed, a 2-year-old on her back.

With an effortless click, the girl shoots a jet of saliva through the gap between her two front teeth. It lands on the floor. Then she begins to talk as she shifts the toddler from her back to her bosom.

“The father of this child is a German tourist,” she said. “He impregnated me and left the country after his vacation. I was forced to drop out of school and take care of the child.”

Sabina is one among many children in this coastal region who have become mothers at too young an age. She and other girls, as well as underage boys, have left school to cater to men and women who pay them for sex.

And the market is booming: Child sex tourism has remained rampant in Mombasa, a port city, despite a spate of terror attacks in the past three years that have scared away package vacationers, crippling a vital tourism sector that contributes about 10 percent to Kenya’s gross domestic product.

European travelers especially have continued to fuel the trade. Many come to the city in search of girls aged between 12 and 18. The industry has made Kenya one of the world's hubs for child sex tourism, researchers say.

“We always believe that white men have money, so when they come here we hope that they will get us out of poverty,” said Sabina. “They give us a lot of money and sleep with us. We use the money to pay rent for our parents and buy food.”

Trace Kenya, a local nonprofit group that works with the United Nations to battle child trafficking, estimates there could be as many as 100,000 child sex workers in Mombasa. The trade extends up and down the coast to the seaside resort towns of Malindi and Diani, according to the NGO.

In a 2010 report â€" the most recent available â€" UNICEF released numbers on child trafficking in Kenya that revealed that almost a third of girls age 12 and younger in the Mombasa region were involved in prostitution. European men comprise half of the clients, the report said.

Sex tourism has been blamed in Kenya for increasing rates of school dropouts, poverty and illiteracy as school-age children skip class in pursuit of easy money. At the same time, poverty is the main driver behind child sex tourism, say experts. Some parents even urge their children to become involved.

Emily, a 16-year-old orphan, said she was forced into the business due to poverty and peer pressure. Her aunt encouraged her to engage in sex with white men to help pay family expenses. Emily is now infected with HIV.

“I have slept with different men, especially whites from Germany, Italy and the USA,” she said. “I regret it but I had no option [at] that time. I started the business at age 10, when a friend connected me to an Italian tourist who had visited the country for three months. I had nothing to eat and nowhere to sleep.”

Teenage boys and 20-something Kenyan men known as "beach boys" also hook up with older white women, usually Western tourists who have flown here specifically for sexual encounters.

Against a backdrop of dazzlingly white sand and the aquamarine sea at Jomo Kenyatta Public Beach, foreign women sip cocktails under bamboo shades. Young men approach them with compliments designed to break the ice.

“This is our work,” said Alex Mwalumba, a beach boy who said he’s 29 but looks much younger. “It’s very simple to lure a white woman. First, know the language she speaks. Secondly, tell her she is the most beautiful woman you have ever seen. For the first time in years, she truly believes she is desirable.”

Mwalumba had few regrets.

“The money will begin to flow,” he said, referring to payments once a temporary relationship has begun. “Some [beach boys] have used the opportunity to build good houses and start businesses.”

But he warned that business sometimes can be risky.

“Some tourists end up either being robbed or murdered by beach boys in pursuit for money,” he noted. “Beach boys are not after love. They are after money. They sometime trick tourists to go to the room and rob them.”

Paul Adhoch, who heads child rights organization Trace Kenya, said prostitution has led to an increase in unwanted pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases among teenagers in Mombasa. It has also broken up families in the city, he said.

Trace Kenya is working to rescue girls from the sex trade and to end the practice in the Mombasa region. The NGO has rescued more than 10,000 children in the last seven years, putting them in shelters and making other arrangements for them to earn a living.

“We have rescued many children involved in sex tourism or those who were potentially likely to fall into it, more girls â€" for young men the number has been lower,” he said. “The police have done little to fight the vice. They have given tourists impunity despite having evidence against them.”

But Regional Police Chief Nelson Marwa says the government has done a lot to battle the practice, including warning tourists and parents against being involved in the business.

“We have put in place laws that will deal with such acts,” Marwa said. “Already we have arrested and charged parents, children and some tourists. We will also close all hotels that allow young girls and old tourists to check in together, and their licenses will be canceled.”

The real problem, Adhoch believes, is culture.

“There is a culture among parents and children that when you get yourself a white man, then you have gotten yourself out of poverty,” said Adhoch. “Tourists always take this advantage and will come here deliberately for that.”

But Sabina, who is still struggling to come to terms with her HIV-positive status, wants the government to do more to help girls in the local sex industry.

“The government should curb the practice by arresting tourists whose aim is to engage in sex with children and dump them afterward,” she said. “They are creating more poverty for young people here like me.”

Editor's note: The last names of children interviewed for this story have been withheld to protect their identities. Tonny Onyulo reported from Mombasa, Kenya.

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John Elway Mum on Von Miller Sex Tape Case

He's usually a chatty guy ... but >John Elway shut down when asked about the >Von Miller sex tape case Wednesday night.  The Broncos GM was leaving Madeo with his smokin' hot wife when we asked how he felt about his biggest star being involved in a crazy sex tape war. It's clear it's a touchy subject.  Elway was down to talk the last time Von was involved in a big controversy -- saying it was "too bad" when Miller cut Elway out of a White House photo because he was mad about contract negotiations. As far as the sex tape fight goes, Von's co-star was >ordered to surrender her copy of the footage -- she has 24 hours to comply ... or else. 
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Friday, December 9, 2016

UK football sex abuse: 83 suspects and 98 clubs involved in inquiry

Story highlights

  • 83 suspects in UK sex abuse case
  • 98 soccer clubs involved in investigation
The investigation involves all levels of football, from top-level clubs to amateur teams.
Police forces across the UK continue to receive calls from victims and people offering information. In total, 639 referrals have been received from both the NSPCC (National Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children) helpline and police forces.
Of the victims identified so far, 98% are male and their ages range from seven to 20.
"Allegations received by police forces across the country are being swiftly acted upon," said Chief Constable Simon Bailey, the NPCC's lead for Child Protection.
The investigation began when former professional footballer Andy Woodward became the first to publicly tell his story in November.
Fellow lower-league player Steve Walters and ex-England internationals Paul Stewart and David White also came forward soon after, before a hotline was set up for people who were sexually abused while playing football in Britain.
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UK football sex abuse: 83 suspects and 98 clubs involved in inquiry

Story highlights

  • 83 suspects in UK sex abuse case
  • 98 soccer clubs involved in investigation
The investigation involves all levels of football, from top-level clubs to amateur teams.
Police forces across the UK continue to receive calls from victims and people offering information. In total, 639 referrals have been received from both the NSPCC (National Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children) helpline and police forces.
Of the victims identified so far, 98% are male and their ages range from seven to 20.
"Allegations received by police forces across the country are being swiftly acted upon," said Chief Constable Simon Bailey, the NPCC's lead for Child Protection.
The investigation began when former professional footballer Andy Woodward became the first to publicly tell his story in November.
Fellow lower-league player Steve Walters and ex-England internationals Paul Stewart and David White also came forward soon after, before a hotline was set up for people who were sexually abused while playing football in Britain.
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Thursday, December 8, 2016

John Elway Mum on Von Miller Sex Tape Case

He's usually a chatty guy ... but >John Elway shut down when asked about the >Von Miller sex tape case Wednesday night.  The Broncos GM was leaving Madeo with his smokin' hot wife when we asked how he felt about his biggest star being involved in a crazy sex tape war. It's clear it's a touchy subject.  Elway was down to talk the last time Von was involved in a big controversy -- saying it was "too bad" when Miller cut Elway out of a White House photo because he was mad about contract negotiations. As far as the sex tape fight goes, Von's co-star was >ordered to surrender her copy of the footage -- she has 24 hours to comply ... or else. 
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Friday, December 9, 2016

How to Get Back to Having Sex After Pregnancy

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My husband’s been totally focused on our baby since she was born six months ago. I love that he’s a great dad, but now that we have a parenting routine, I could use a little more loving myself. How can I get him to bring back the romance and sex?
â€"K.M., 28, Boston

“This is a super-common issueâ€"we hear about it a lot from women, but even for men it takes a while for sex to come back on the table after a baby. Talk with your husband about what you both need and are available for. Sex? Kissing? Cuddling? Nothing? Just go step-by-step. To go from nothing, where you probably have been for several months, all the way to sex can be overwhelming. Also, in my mind, a big date night with expectations to have sex at the end is a terrible idea; it just adds pressure. Do something relaxing that feels really authentic and good.”

â€"Lindsay Chrisler, a dating and relationship coach in New York City

“Men are simple. If you want sex, tell him. Not: ‘I’d like more sex in this relationship.’ Get in bed and shoot him a text that says, ‘Sex?’ If he declines, make him pick a new day and time. And maybe you need to redefine what constitutes sex and romance now that you have a kid. If you expect a carriage ride before you get busy, I can see why your husband might pass. But if you’re like most married couples, all you need is 15 minutes and a door that locks. Figure out what works for you, but figure it out together.”

â€"James Breakwell, a comedy writer and father of four

“The first step won’t be sex. It’ll be reconnecting as a couple. Think back to before the baby: What did you talk about and do? Make sure you’re having those adult ­convos and doing those activities. There are a lot of possibilities for why he’s acting differently. Seeing the vagina during delivery can be a little traumatic, or he may be fatigued from child care, or afraid of getting you pregnant again. These holdups tend to be temporary, so delve into how you’re both feeling, listen, and validateâ€"the physical stuff follows.”

â€"Katharine O’Connell White, M.D., an ob-gyn in Boston

“What a great problem to have! It’s all based in love, so try to look at this from a place of gratitude: So many fathers struggle to connect with their babies, but he doesn’t. In my experience the healthiest families are made up of couples who take care of each other and then take care of the children’s needs. But in the first year all bets are offâ€"it’s survival mode. I know that you’re feeling hurt and scared that things will never go back to normal, but trust me, he’ll come back. You have things the baby doesn’t!”

â€"Glennon Doyle Melton, author of Love Warrior

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Thursday, December 8, 2016

Americans have been lying about the benefits of abstinence only education and the dangers of porn for decades — Quartz

Over the past few weeks, as the idea of a Trump presidency has gone from unthinkable joke to horrifying reality, I’ve heard a new term making the rounds, particularly among my friends in media. “We’re living in a post-truth era,” they tell me, citing Trump’s many lies and contradictions, the rise of fake news sites, and a growing distrust of the mainstream media as evidence that the American people are increasingly distanced from reality.

I think this is a fairly accurate assessment. But as someone who’s been writing and educating Americans about sex-related topics for over a decade, I can testify to the fact that we’ve been living in a “post-truth” era for years. Quite frankly, I’ve been dealing with a post-truth world for my entire career.

The easiest entry point for understanding America’s fuzzy relationship between sex and fact is the sad state of American sex education. According to the Guttmacher Institute, a mere 13 US states require sex education to be “medically accurate.” To put that in context, 39 states require HIV education to either stress or cover abstinence, in spite of the fact that there’s little proof that a focus on abstinence actually helps delay sex.

Indeed, America’s two-decade long love affair with abstinence-only education (which president Barack Obama has attempted to put an end to) feels like the epitome of “post-truth.” Study after study shows that abstinence-only education doesn’t reduce the rate of teen pregnancy, delay the age at which young people start having sex, or lower rates of STI transmission. But as long as telling kids not to have sex feels like the solution, these misguided lesson plans will likely persist. (In fact, it might actually get worse; president-elect Donald Trump and vice president-elect Mike Pence are not known for an enlightened outlook on sexuality. Pence once said on national television that condoms are “very, very poor protection” against STIs).

This aversion to the truth is much more than a failing of political conservatives. In my experience, liberals are just as willing to ignore the facts when it’s convenient to their larger narrative.

Over the years I’ve rolled my eyes at numerous acts of “journalism” that perpetuated half-truths and outright lies about the sex and porn industriesâ€"often in the supposed service of protecting women. >The Price of Pleasure, for exampleâ€"an anti-porn documentary created by NYU professor Chyng Sunâ€"misled many of its interview subjects and used manipulative editing to craft a vision of a ruthlessly exploitative porn industry that few porn performers recognize. A piece in The Atlantic once positioned double anal, an extreme sex act that even the most practiced porn performers need to warm up to, as a routine occurrence. And let’s not forget the New York Times’ own Nicholas Kristof, whose factually inaccurate writing has peddled numerous myths about sex work and who has positioned himself as a voice of authority in spite of numerous sex workers who’ve contested his version of the “truth.”

The topic of sex is vulnerable to this sort of misinformation for a number of reasons. It’s an intensely personal experience, and one most of us have some degree of experience with. This creates a personal sense of authorityâ€"even when we lack any facts or expertise beyond our own limited experience. Compounding this false confidence is the persistent taboo against public discussions of sexuality. Stigma around sex prevents us from openly and honestly discussing the topic, adding further fuel to the many “truthy” statements that circulate about human sexual experience.

A slumping news industry has coincided with the rise of social mediaâ€"a phenomenon that has made news consumption more individualized and created information bubbles that help reinforce what feels right over what’s actually true.While unfortunate, in this context it makes sense that we’re seeing a spread of inaccuracy in our discussions of politics, the environment, and other hot-button topics that have historically been more buffered from falsehoods than sex.

But if my work in sex education offers me a deeper understanding of the factors that encourage and enable a collective divorce from reality, it also gives me hope that post-truth isn’t a permanent state of being. If we stay committed to pursuing and promoting a reality-based vision of the world, it’s possible to overcome seemingly overwhelming odds.

On the same Tuesday that Trump secured the White House, California’s adult industry battled misinformation, ignorance, and a well-funded propaganda machine to defeat the egregious Proposition 60. Opposed by many health organizations and practically all of California’s adult film actors, the proposition would have violated worker privacy and potentially made it possible for regular Californians to sue porn producers if they believed actors weren’t wearing condoms. Around the globe, sex workers have banded together to make their voices and opinions heard, and are slowly chipping away at the post-truth ethos that’s oppressed their industry for decades (if not centuries).

And even though government-funded sex education is often mediocreâ€"if not outright harmfulâ€"a number of independent sources have harnessed the internet to provide smart, thoughtful, and fact-based sex education to young people around the globe. This is the lesson activists and politicians alike need to internalize in the age of Trump. With enough commitment, dedication, and persistence, the truth can ultimately win out.

Follow Lux on Twitter @luxalptraum. Learn how to write for Quartz Ideas. We welcome your comments at ideas@qz.com.

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Friday, February 2, 2018

Can YOU tell £280 lingerie from a £22 supermarket set? | Daily Mail Online


Can YOU tell £280 lingerie from a £22 supermarket set?


Whether you're hoping to receive a beautiful lingerie gift for Valentine's Day, or the season simply puts you in the mood to replenish your underwear drawer, you'll no doubt be after something a bit more special than a sturdy and standard bra and briefs set. 
When it comes to buying lingerie, everywhere from high street chains to supermarkets and upmarket brands are making a play for your money, so is it really worth splashing the cash on a lingerie set that costs as much as a designer dress?
Model and TV presenter Heather Elrick, 27, from London gave her verdict on 12 styles for Femail, ranging from an £11 high street set to a luxury ensemble costing £280 - with surprising results. 
Heather didn't know how much each set cost or the brand it came as she tried it on, and only discovered the price after she'd shared her thoughts.
While good quality lace and satin are a marker of quality, her verdict shows that you shouldn't discount cheaper brands - even if you're after something special.  

Model and TV presenter Heather Elrick, 27, from London put 12 styles to the test for Femail, but can you tell the designer sets from the high street styles? 


Arista Cupped Bra and Brief, Loveday London £280

A luxury set featuring intricately gold corded lace and matt sand Italian Lambskin leather with a classic shape to enhances the silhouette, while providing uplift and support.

Heather's first impression 

I fell in love with this set before I’d even tried it on! It looked luxurious and high quality, and once I’d tried it on - it did not disappoint. 
Fitting perfectly, and providing fantastic support, the delicate lining and soft trimming also meant it felt lightweight and comfortable. 

Verdict on price

I had a feeling this was an expensive set. It’s more than I have paid for before for underwear but it still stands as a firm favourite. 


Rating: 5/5



Heather models the Arista Cupped Bra and Brief, Loveday London £280. The bra and briefs feature luxury gold corded lace and Italian lambskin leather panelling 


The luxury set costs £280, but despite the hefty price tag it was Heather's firm favourite 


Fiore Padded Plunge Bra and Shorts by Lepel from Figleaves, £40

A padded underwired plunge bra in floral lace with contrasting embroidery and matching shorts in a sheer mesh fabric with intricate floral embroidery, corset style side detail and bow centre.

Heather's first impressions

Girly and sweet, the bra of this pairing was moulded to fit well and give great support. The little lace appliqué was cute, however it was slightly itchy. 
The knickers, although seamless and smooth, felt a little flimsy. I’m guessing high street.

Verdict on price 

Slightly more than I expected it to cost, I personally wouldn’t spend £40 on this set.


Rating: 3/5



Heather wearing the Fiore Padded Plunge Bra and Shorts by Lepel, available from Figleaves. She was impressed by the fit of the lacy bra from the £40 set 


While Heather was pleased with the support of the bra, she found it slightly itchy and said the matching shorts felt a little flimsy 


F&F Signature Lace Trim Silk Plunge Bra and Lace Trim Silk Brazilian Briefs, Tesco, £22

The rose gold plunge bra offers complete support with supersoft, underwired cups adorned with a pretty pale pink-cream lace appliqué. Matching briefs made from premium silk with a touch of stretch feature a floral lace insert to the front.

Heather's first impressions

Another cute colour, the dusty pink caught my eye. I wasn’t a big fan of the lace trimming, it was a bit too much for me on the bra, but the knickers were lovely. It fit nicely and there was nothing bad to say about the quality - however it just wasn’t a front runner for me. 
Verdict on price: I initially gave it two out of five but I'd bump it up to a three because of the cost. It's good quality for price.

Rating: 3/5 


Heather shows off F&F Signature Lace Trim Silk Plunge Bra and Lace Trim Silk Brazilian Briefs from Tesco, £22


Heather felt there was too much lace trim on the bra, but was impressed by the comfort and fit of the matching briefs 


Harper non-padded full support bra and Brazilian briefs, Boux Avenue, £46

A strappy full support balconette bra with lace cups and mesh trim. Comes with matching Brazilian briefs with scalloped detail

Heather's first impression

This was my second joint favourite, mainly due to the bra. I was pleasantly surprised to see something slightly different design-wise with the bra from the rest of the choices, and once on, couldn’t stop looking in the mirror at it! 
It felt pretty but sexy and the material was soft and it was a lot more comfortable than it looked. Again, great support and the knickers were also delicate and fit well. 

Verdict on price

A great price for what could definitely have been more expensive. I’d definitely buy this set.

Rating: 5/5 


Heather in the Harper non-padded full support bra and Brazilian briefs from Boux Avenue, £46



Tease Underwired Bra and Tie Side Brief, Figleaves, £46




A non-padded underwired bra with lace covered cups and satin straps, and the matching medium coverage briefs tie at the side for a cheeky twist. 


Heather's first impressions

I adored the bra of this set; I don’t usually buy bras without padding or a lined cup, but this provided great support and shape and the lace was really pretty. 
However, the bottoms let this set down, as although the side-tie bows were cute; they weren’t practical and didn’t fit well as the front gaped forward, no matter how I tied them. I’d say this was quite expensive, bra but let down by the bottoms. 

Verdit on price 

I’d actually pay this for the bra alone as it was well worth it, I thought it would be more expensive than this so I’m pleasantly surprised.

Rating: 3/5 


Heather sporting the Tease Underwired Bra and Tie Side Brief from Figleaves, £46. She felt the bottoms let the set down as they weren't a comfortable fit 


Heather was impressed by the quality of the bra and would have paid more than £46 for this element alone 




Burgandy Daisy Lace Balcony Bra and briefs,





Peacocks, £11




The £7 bra features an all over lace design and adjustable straps 

Heather's first impression

Although I liked the colour of this set, it wasn’t a favourite. With light padding and a great moulded cup shape, it fit well. 
However it felt slightly cheaper than some of the others, and the lace wasn’t the most delicate looking or feeling. 
The same with the knickers, although they fit well - they just felt slightly cheap. It's a two out of five from me. 

Verdict on price

Extremely well priced, which bumps up the rating. I was right about it feeling slightly cheap but for that price and the fit it’s not too bad overall.

Rating: 3/5 


Heather wears a Burgundy bra and briefs set from Peacocks, £11. Although she initially questioned the quality, Heather concluded it was a good buy for such a low price 



Pamela Loves Coco de Mer Lucky Plunge Bra and Lucky Bikini Brief, Coco de Mer, £105


Underwired to provide support and uplift strategically placed lace draws the eye to the curves, while subtly veiling the bust

Heather's first impression 

Beautiful and sensual - this one made me feel sexy but I just didn’t feel that secure in it. 
The bra was stunning and the bottoms were very daring also. It felt expensive but the comfort levels were a downside.

Verdict on price

Although it costs more than high street, I did think this would be even more expensive than it is.


Rating 3/5 





Lovehoney Flirty Underwired Plunge Bra Red £20.98




Padded half-cups and a plunge neckline to accentuate the cleavage, while the matching shorts offer full coverage with a sheer finish,

Heather's first impression 


This was a very sexy little number, the devilish red however, came across a little cheap for me. 
It was very thin but fit well and gave more support than I thought it would. Although I don’t dislike it, it’s an overall 2/5 for me. 

Verdict on price

Not surprised at the price of this one, and again I’d bump the rating due to its great fit for the price.

Rating: 3/5 


Heather wearing the Lovehoney Flirty Underwired Plunge Bra Red £20.98. She felt the colour was a bit too loud but was impressed by the level of support for the price 


Soft Monroe Bra Black and Knicker, Pom Lampson, £83

A transparent lace bra with a silk chiffon band, inspired by the timeless elegance and glamour of the 1950s. The brand claims it's ideal for larger cup sizes, even though it's not underwired.  

Heather's first impression

I liked the lace and satin-like feels of this one, I can’t quite decide if it’s satin or not, but either way it’s a great feel. 
Simple but sexy, this fit seamlessly but didn’t give the best support with the bra. I’d say it’s mid-range between high street and designer 

Verdict on price 

The price confirms for me that is was great quality, a tad more expensive than I thought but worth it in my opinion.

Rating 4/5 


Heather modelling the Soft Monroe Bra Black and Knicker by Pom Lampson, £83


Although Heather felt the bra didn't offer the best support she was still impressed by the quality. The set was one of her favourites, gaining a four out of five rating 




Leona Black Balcony Bra and brief, Fantasie, £56



An underwired bra with moulded cups and scalloped lace trim to provide extra coverage, while the brief has the same semi-sheer panelling and pretty floral detailing

Heather's first impression

Even though this gave great support and fit amazingly, I just felt very frumpy in it. The shape of the cups was slightly pointy and I don’t feel it was the most flattering. 
The same with the bottoms, they were a great fit but just a bit too frumpy for me.

Verdict on price

More than I thought it would cost, but if you’re mostly interested in a great fit and support then it’s worth it.

Rating: 3/5 because of the fit 


Heather wearing the Leona Black Balcony Bra and brief, Fantasie, £56. Although she was impresed by the fit, she said the style made her feel somewhat frumpy 



Arabella Bra and Briefs, Something Wicked, £244


A bra with gold threaded French lace adorning the silk covered cups with soft picot edge elastic, while the briefs feature a gold threaded lace motif surrounded by soft powermesh.

Heather's first impression

This was almost a favourite, however was only let down by one thing. This felt expensive and designer - it was stunning. I felt glamorous and womanly in it and think the shape and cut of the high waisted pants was extremely flattering. 
However the cups felt like they pressed down and weren’t the best shaped. It was still absolutely beautiful. 

Verdict on price

I was right about it being expensive, it definitely felt it. I just wish the cups had been a better fit.

Rating 4/5 


Heather models the Arabella Bra and Briefs by Something Wicked, £244. It was almost a favourite, but Heather felt the cups of the bra weren't the most flattering shape 


F&F Signature Rae Lace Balcony Bra and briefs, Tesco, £15

Balcony cups with a delicate scalloped edge lace overlay offer a rounded, lifted effect with full underwired support.

Heather's first impression

The thick band of the bra on this set was comfortable and supportive and gave a nice lift. However I wasn’t impressed with the knickers, they weren’t the most comfortable or best fitting and dug in meaning they weren’t very flattering. Maybe high street? 

Verdict on price

Another one where I’d purchase the set just for the bra at that price, well priced - just still let down by the knickers.

Rating: 2/5


Heather wears F&F Signature Rae Lace Balcony Bra and briefs by Tesco, £15. She was impressed by the bra but felt the briefs let the set down 




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She may be aiding in the search to find her home country's next modeling phenom.  
But even in her forties, Heidi Klum is still at the top of her game.
The 44-year-old star absolutely smoldered in newly-released behind-the-scenes photographs to promote Germany's Next Top Model. 

Simply stunning: Heidi Klum absolutely smoldered in newly-released behind-the-scenes photographs to promote Germany's Next Top Model

Heidi looked to still be at the top of her game as she sported all types of skimpy swimwear to promote the upcoming 13th season of the reality show.

She showed off her flawless physique in neutral-colored two-pieces including a white bikini which she teamed with matching strappy heels.
The model also posed in a black bikini featuring a bandeau top and high-waisted shorts with matching heels.

Darkside: The 44-year-old model ooked to still be at the top of her game as she sported all types of skimpy swimwear to promote the upcoming 13th season of the reality show


Big production: There were several people on set to aid in the shooting of the promotional footage


Goddess: She absolutely scintillated while posing on a balcony


Catching rays: She showed of her fantastic figure in the two-piece 

Her blonde locks were worn down as she accentuated her natural features with complimentary make-up. 
Heidi struck a pose in several different places including a deck by the water, on a balcony, and inside of a pool. 
The former Victoria's Secret Angel is definitely a multimedia star as she was filmed and also posed for the sultry snaps.

Stunning: Her blonde locks were worn down as she accentuated her natural features with complimentary make-up


All love: She happily posed with one of the crewmembers 


Lovely lady: She swam in the water for more sultry shots


Gorgeous: No doubt it was a fun day on set 

Germany's Next Top Model returns for season 13 on Thursday, February 8. 
No doubt it is an interesting time in Heidi's life as she is said to have rung in the New Year in Bali, Indonesia with the 31-year-old art curator according to a report in the latest issue of Star Magazine.
Dailymail.com reached out to Heidi's reps and her publicist has no comment on the matter.

Like what you see? The German model seemed to be very involved with the shoot


Daring: She wore all types of swimwear


Coming soon: Germany's Next Top Model returns for season 13 on Thursday, February 8

However according to the tabloid weekly, the former lovers welcomed 2018 together at the Nihi Sumba Resort.
It may not be the happiest of love stories though, as some close to the Project Runway star have expressed reservations about the reconciliation according to Star.
'The last thing anyone wants to see is Heidi reuniting with Vito,' an friend to the German supermodel told the magazine. 'But she always goes running back to him.'

On the go: She was spotted on the Los Angeles set of Germany's Top Model on Friday


Casual cool: She rocked low-cut black top tucked into jeans, and black suede heels


Yum: Heidi looked like she had just grabbed food from catering 

This comes after their most recent split back in September.
At the time, Heidi confirmed the news to People after DailyMail.com reported in mid September that the two are 'taking time apart.'
A source told DailyMail.com on September 13 that there was 'trouble in paradise.'
Heidi was married to Kiss From A Rose singer Seal for nine years as they share four children together. 

Booty shot: The blonde also flaunted her derriere in this selfie she posted on Instagram in the early hours of Monday morning, captioned, succinctly, 'Cheeky'


Back together? Heidi is said to have rung in the New Year with ex Vito Schnabel after their split in September according to Star Magazine, as they are pictured together in New York last February


Leggy lady: According to the weekly, the two enjoyed a relaxing time at the Nihi Sumba Resort in Bali, Indonesia, as she pictured laying out in a tub on her balcony





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She recently had surgery on her back after battling a spinal issue for almost a decade.
But Ruby Rose proved she was on the mend as she shared a snap of herself recovering while enjoying a dinner party at a friend's house on Friday.
The Orange Is The New Black star, 31, dressed down in a 'gay power' slogan T-shirt and tartan pyjama bottoms for the casual Instagram selfie. 

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Recovering: Ruby Rose proved she was on the mend as she shared a snap of herself without her cane - after undergoing spinal surgery

Referencing the furnishings around her, she captioned the snap: 'Gay power and Gucci wallpaper.'
The brunette beauty, who has been pictured spotted with a walking stick at several red carpet over the past two weeks, ditched the aid for the shot.  

The star - who documented her struggles to buy Worcestershire sauce and ice for her pal's dinner gathering earlier in the day - seemed to be in good spirits.
The Pitch Perfect 3 star has been spending the last few weeks recovering from a gruelling spinal operation. 

Tough times: The Pitch Perfect 3 star has been spending the last few weeks recovering from a gruelling spinal operation and has been using a walking frame and cane (pictured) to get around


 Hidden pain: The Orange Is The New Black star revealed she has been battling a 'spine issue' for a decade 

Ruby first opened up about her decade-long battle with a 'spine issue' on Instagram last month.
Sharing a photo of herself sitting in a wheelchair, she said she'd decided to speak up about her condition before she was recognised out in public using the assistive transport device. 
'So... for the past few years (decade) I've been dealing with a spine issue,' she wrote to her 1.34 million followers.

Trauma: Last year, the brunette confessed her spinal issues stemmed from a car accident in her youth (pictured with girlfriend Jessica Origliasso in mid-January after her operation)

'I am now recovering from a back procedure, but I do need to stay active, so before I get seen with my cane and wheelchair in public, I'd rather put it out there that I'm fine and going to be fine.' 
Last year, the brunette confessed her spinal issues stemmed from a car accident in her youth.
Responding to comments about her appearance at a film premiere, she wrote to a fan on Twitter: 'I have a tilted posterior (it's why I have abs but no butt) and spinal curvature from a bad car accident.'

Explaining: Responding to comments about her appearance at a film premiere, she wrote to a fan on Twitter: 'I have a tilted posterior (it's why I have abs but no butt) and spinal curvature from a bad car accident'




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