How do I get my brother to shut the fuck up?

Q. My brother does nothing but play shooting games online with people he seems to hate very much. How do I get him to shut the fuck up? I once told him to his face that I would kill him in his sleep (yes, i know, threats aren't nice, but i was so upset i didn't know completely what i was saying... ) and he hit me. Am I just doomed to have an asshole for a brother??

A. You can't get him to shut up, unfortunately. If you have already tried talking to him about the noise, then he's probably not going to do anything. I have 2 older brothers who are a$$holes. One of them is 30 f*cking years old, he chooses to be unemployed, and he still plays video games. He's not loud when he plays, but he slams his bedroom door several times a day. He is so inconsiderate. I've asked him to be quiet. He picked a fight with me when I wrote a polite note that said, "Could you please be quiet and not slam your door?" I had to write a note because he rarely ever talks to me. His response was to back me into a corner and yell, "F*ck you!" Never in my life has anyone said that to me. He hasn't hit me since we were kids, but if I hadn't told him to leave me alone, he would have hit me. Eventually, he apologized, but he still won't shut up. He refuses to change.
If your bro doesn't want to be quiet, then there's nothing you can do.

Original Question

How would you feel if you crush said fuck you when you joked with him?

Q. ok, i joked with my crush & he said fuck you ... how would you feel if some1 said that .... & did he say that to me because we are closed ? or any other answers?

A. I don't know why you feel the urge to use such words in polite company.


.

Original Question

How to initiate the fuck buddy in high school relationship.?

Q. There us this gel in my high school who is so hot but I would never date her. I would just have sex with her. She is always being mean to me like saying ur a creep. So i make fun of her back. How do I change this into a fuck buddy relationship. Like I can drive by myself and stuff. How would I go about offering to drive her? Please no trolls or mean comments

A. Be flank 2her ad be expecting anythng from her

Original Question

If You Want to Update this Blog, You Can do it by Click This Link and This Blog Will be Updated Automaticly

How do I get my brother to shut the fuck up?

Q. My brother does nothing but play shooting games online with people he seems to hate very much. How do I get him to shut the fuck up? I once told him to his face that I would kill him in his sleep (yes, i know, threats aren't nice, but i was so upset i didn't know completely what i was saying... ) and he hit me. Am I just doomed to have an asshole for a brother??

A. You can't get him to shut up, unfortunately. If you have already tried talking to him about the noise, then he's probably not going to do anything. I have 2 older brothers who are a$$holes. One of them is 30 f*cking years old, he chooses to be unemployed, and he still plays video games. He's not loud when he plays, but he slams his bedroom door several times a day. He is so inconsiderate. I've asked him to be quiet. He picked a fight with me when I wrote a polite note that said, "Could you please be quiet and not slam your door?" I had to write a note because he rarely ever talks to me. His response was to back me into a corner and yell, "F*ck you!" Never in my life has anyone said that to me. He hasn't hit me since we were kids, but if I hadn't told him to leave me alone, he would have hit me. Eventually, he apologized, but he still won't shut up. He refuses to change.
If your bro doesn't want to be quiet, then there's nothing you can do.

Original Question

How would you feel if you crush said fuck you when you joked with him?

Q. ok, i joked with my crush & he said fuck you ... how would you feel if some1 said that .... & did he say that to me because we are closed ? or any other answers?

A. I don't know why you feel the urge to use such words in polite company.


.

Original Question

How to initiate the fuck buddy in high school relationship.?

Q. There us this gel in my high school who is so hot but I would never date her. I would just have sex with her. She is always being mean to me like saying ur a creep. So i make fun of her back. How do I change this into a fuck buddy relationship. Like I can drive by myself and stuff. How would I go about offering to drive her? Please no trolls or mean comments

A. Be flank 2her ad be expecting anythng from her

Original Question

If You Want to Update this Blog, You Can do it by Click This Link and This Blog Will be Updated Automaticly

Bad Sex in Fiction Awards ceremony celebrates 24th year

“It’s terribly British, isn’t it,” said the man next to me at last night’s Bad Sex in Fiction Awards ceremony at the (appropriately named) In and Out Club in St James’s. He was referring, of course, to the yearly bash â€" now in its 24th year â€" in which the Literary Review magazine nominates half a dozen passages from contemporary fiction seen to represent sex at its most cringeworthy, reads them out to champagne-infused guffaws, and then awards a prize to the author of the worst.

It is a terribly British event, but it also provides a snarky satisfaction that transcends nationality. Because for anyone with the sneaking suspicion that the sexual act is better done or seen than artistically described â€" that its complex idiosyncrasy is one of the few things that lie outside the remit of the otherwise resourceful English language â€" the Bad Sex Awards hits its mark.

Yet as the entrants this year make clear, writing about sex with flagrant abominableness is still cheerily far from going out of fashion. Hearty examples were a passage from Blue Peter presenter Janet Ellis’s The Butcher’s Hook:

When his hand goes to my breasts, my feet are envious. I slide my hands down his back, all along his spine, rutted with bone like mud ridges in a dry field, to the audacious swell below.

“Audacious swell”? Quite.

Then there was the American Gayle Forman’s entry, from Leave Me:

They were in that room, Jason had slammed the door and devoured her with his mouth, his hands, which were everywhere. As if he were ravenous. And she remembered standing in front of him, her dress a puddle on the floor, and how she’d started to shake, her knees knocking together, like she was a virgin, like this was the first time.

Erri de Luca.
Claudio Onorati/EPA

But the gong went to the Italian poet and translator Erri De Luca for The Day Before Happiness (de Luca understandably wasn’t present). “My prick was a plank stuck to her stomach,” the Neapolitan was justly rebuked for writing:

With a swerve of her hips, she turned me over and I was on top of her … I was her plaything, which she moved around. Our sexes were ready, poised in expectation, barely touching each other: ballet dancers hovering en pointe.

Not everyone felt this deserved the award â€" as an American woman nearby remarked to me, this could clearly be read as satire, plain and simple. Perhaps, but satire doesn’t necessarily get you home dry, especially when it’s ambiguous. After all, the book, a coming of age story, is not particularly comic in the way that, for instance, the early sex-mad tomes of Philip Roth and Martin Amis were.

In fact, the awards were conceived not to discourage writing about sex, but to discourage writing about sex badly. The wording of the original mission statement in 1993 by Auberon Waugh, then editor of the Literary Review, is revealing: the bash was to “draw attention to poorly written, perfunctory or redundant passages of sexual description in modern fiction”.

It would be helpful to have some guidance on what non-redundant, good sex writing looks like, since it’s not entirely clear whether it can exist in a literary form at all. After all, the most sexually charged novels of the last 100 or so years use the rule of thumb that the act is unmentionable, boring, or best only suggested.

The novels of Dickens, Eliot and Trollope are full of sexual yearning, and their emotional and erotic pull are none the worse for the veiled references to kissing and love. Even in 20th century novels with subject matter devoted to romantic entanglements, the sexual act is not necessarily spelled out or even mentioned â€" Iris Murdoch doesn’t go further than “making love” as an account of the nocturnal activities of her highly sexually charged couple Dora and Paul in The Bell (1958).

And while Margaret Drabble’s super-sexy characters Clara and Gabriel get pretty steamy in Jerusalem the Golden, nothing beyond the fact is spelled out. It’s a blessed relief which does nothing to diminish the profoundly saucy atmosphere of the book.

The awards are also a humorous reminder not just of the imaginative power but also of the literary value of discipline and restraint in matters of bonking. A recent book about prime minster Herbert Asquith’s passionate attachment to Venetia Stanley tells of his thousands of letters to her, all passionately headed with variants of “my own darling” and “darlingest”.

Asquith’s desperate fixation with Stanley pours out from every page, but had he indulged in anything more sexually explicit than the desire to “go for a little drive, or will you come to Downing St & have a talk”, it would hardly have helped, and probably only hindered, the accumulated intensity of his fixation. Voluble lusters: take note.

Zoe Strimpel, PhD Candidate, University of Sussex

"

| Fiction | Awards | ceremony | celebrates | 24th | year | “It’s | terribly | British | isn’t | said | next | last | night’s | (appropriately | named) | Club | James’s | referring | course | yearly | bash | which | Literary | Review | magazine | nominates | half | dozen | passages | from | contemporary | fiction | seen | represent | most | cringeworthy | reads | them | champagne | infused | guffaws | then | awards | prize | author | worst | p> It | event | also | provides | snarky | satisfaction | that | transcends | nationality | Because | anyone | with | sneaking | suspicion | sexual | better | done | than | artistically | described | complex | idiosyncrasy | things | outside | remit | otherwise | resourceful | English | language | hits | mark | p> Yet | entrants | this | make | clear | writing | about | flagrant | abominableness | still | cheerily | going | fashion | Hearty | examples | were | passage | Blue | Peter | presenter | Janet | Ellis’s | Butcher’s | Hook< | a>:< | p> When | hand | goes | breasts | feet | envious | slide | hands | down | back | along | spine | rutted | bone | like | ridges | field | audacious | swell | below | p> < | blockquote> “Audacious | swell” | Quite | p> Then | there | American | Gayle | Forman’s | entry | Leave | p> They | room | Jason | slammed | door | devoured | mouth | everywhere | ravenous | remembered | standing | front | dress | puddle | floor | she’d | started | shake | knees | knocking | together | virgin | first | time | blockquote> Erri | Luca | span>Claudio | Onorati | EPA< | span>< | span>But | gong | went | Italian | poet | translator | Erri | Before | Happiness< | understandably | wasn’t | present) | “My | prick | plank | stuck | stomach | Neapolitan | justly | rebuked | writing:< | p> With | swerve | hips | turned | over | plaything | moved | around | sexes | ready | poised | expectation | barely | touching | each | other: | ballet | dancers | hovering | pointe | blockquote> Not | everyone | felt | deserved | award | woman | nearby | remarked | could | clearly | read | satire | plain | simple | Perhaps | doesn’t | necessarily | home | especially | when | it’s | ambiguous | After | book | coming | story | particularly | comic | instance | early | tomes | Philip | Roth | Martin | Amis | p> In | fact | conceived | discourage | badly | wording | original | mission | statement | 1993 | Auberon | Waugh | editor | revealing: | “draw | attention | poorly | written | perfunctory | redundant | description | modern | fiction” | would | helpful | have | some | guidance | what | good | looks | since | entirely | whether | exist | literary | form | sexually | charged | novels | years | rule | thumb | unmentionable | boring | best | only | suggested | p> The | Dickens | Eliot | Trollope | full | yearning | their | emotional | erotic | pull | none | worse | veiled | references | kissing | love | Even | 20th | century | subject | matter | devoted | romantic | entanglements | spelled | even | mentioned | Iris | Murdoch | further | “making | love” | account | nocturnal | activities | highly | couple | Dora | Paul | Bell< | (1958) | p> And | while | Margaret | Drabble’s | super | sexy | characters | Clara | Gabriel | pretty | steamy | Jerusalem | Golden< | nothing | beyond | It’s | blessed | relief | does | diminish | profoundly | saucy | atmosphere | humorous | reminder | just | imaginative | power | value | discipline | restraint | matters | bonking | recent | book< | prime | minster | Herbert | Asquith’s | passionate | attachment | Venetia | Stanley | tells | thousands | letters | passionately | headed | variants | “my | darling” | “darlingest” | p> Asquith’s | desperate | fixation | pours | every | page | indulged | anything | more | explicit | desire | “go | little | drive | will | come | Downing | & | talk” | hardly | helped | probably | hindered | accumulated | intensity | Voluble | lusters: | take | note | p> Zoe | Strimpel< | Candidate | University | Sussex< | em>< | div> < |

Thank You Very Very Much for Reading this Blog

The child sex trade is booming in this Kenyan port city

Inside a tiny house outside the city of Mombasa on the Indian Ocean coast of Kenya, 11-year-old Sabina sits on a bed, one of her breasts exposed, a 2-year-old on her back.

With an effortless click, the girl shoots a jet of saliva through the gap between her two front teeth. It lands on the floor. Then she begins to talk as she shifts the toddler from her back to her bosom.

“The father of this child is a German tourist,” she said. “He impregnated me and left the country after his vacation. I was forced to drop out of school and take care of the child.”

Sabina is one among many children in this coastal region who have become mothers at too young an age. She and other girls, as well as underage boys, have left school to cater to men and women who pay them for sex.

And the market is booming: Child sex tourism has remained rampant in Mombasa, a port city, despite a spate of terror attacks in the past three years that have scared away package vacationers, crippling a vital tourism sector that contributes about 10 percent to Kenya’s gross domestic product.

European travelers especially have continued to fuel the trade. Many come to the city in search of girls aged between 12 and 18. The industry has made Kenya one of the world's hubs for child sex tourism, researchers say.

“We always believe that white men have money, so when they come here we hope that they will get us out of poverty,” said Sabina. “They give us a lot of money and sleep with us. We use the money to pay rent for our parents and buy food.”

Trace Kenya, a local nonprofit group that works with the United Nations to battle child trafficking, estimates there could be as many as 100,000 child sex workers in Mombasa. The trade extends up and down the coast to the seaside resort towns of Malindi and Diani, according to the NGO.

In a 2010 report â€" the most recent available â€" UNICEF released numbers on child trafficking in Kenya that revealed that almost a third of girls age 12 and younger in the Mombasa region were involved in prostitution. European men comprise half of the clients, the report said.

Sex tourism has been blamed in Kenya for increasing rates of school dropouts, poverty and illiteracy as school-age children skip class in pursuit of easy money. At the same time, poverty is the main driver behind child sex tourism, say experts. Some parents even urge their children to become involved.

Emily, a 16-year-old orphan, said she was forced into the business due to poverty and peer pressure. Her aunt encouraged her to engage in sex with white men to help pay family expenses. Emily is now infected with HIV.

“I have slept with different men, especially whites from Germany, Italy and the USA,” she said. “I regret it but I had no option [at] that time. I started the business at age 10, when a friend connected me to an Italian tourist who had visited the country for three months. I had nothing to eat and nowhere to sleep.”

Teenage boys and 20-something Kenyan men known as "beach boys" also hook up with older white women, usually Western tourists who have flown here specifically for sexual encounters.

Against a backdrop of dazzlingly white sand and the aquamarine sea at Jomo Kenyatta Public Beach, foreign women sip cocktails under bamboo shades. Young men approach them with compliments designed to break the ice.

“This is our work,” said Alex Mwalumba, a beach boy who said he’s 29 but looks much younger. “It’s very simple to lure a white woman. First, know the language she speaks. Secondly, tell her she is the most beautiful woman you have ever seen. For the first time in years, she truly believes she is desirable.”

Mwalumba had few regrets.

“The money will begin to flow,” he said, referring to payments once a temporary relationship has begun. “Some [beach boys] have used the opportunity to build good houses and start businesses.”

But he warned that business sometimes can be risky.

“Some tourists end up either being robbed or murdered by beach boys in pursuit for money,” he noted. “Beach boys are not after love. They are after money. They sometime trick tourists to go to the room and rob them.”

Paul Adhoch, who heads child rights organization Trace Kenya, said prostitution has led to an increase in unwanted pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases among teenagers in Mombasa. It has also broken up families in the city, he said.

Trace Kenya is working to rescue girls from the sex trade and to end the practice in the Mombasa region. The NGO has rescued more than 10,000 children in the last seven years, putting them in shelters and making other arrangements for them to earn a living.

“We have rescued many children involved in sex tourism or those who were potentially likely to fall into it, more girls â€" for young men the number has been lower,” he said. “The police have done little to fight the vice. They have given tourists impunity despite having evidence against them.”

But Regional Police Chief Nelson Marwa says the government has done a lot to battle the practice, including warning tourists and parents against being involved in the business.

“We have put in place laws that will deal with such acts,” Marwa said. “Already we have arrested and charged parents, children and some tourists. We will also close all hotels that allow young girls and old tourists to check in together, and their licenses will be canceled.”

The real problem, Adhoch believes, is culture.

“There is a culture among parents and children that when you get yourself a white man, then you have gotten yourself out of poverty,” said Adhoch. “Tourists always take this advantage and will come here deliberately for that.”

But Sabina, who is still struggling to come to terms with her HIV-positive status, wants the government to do more to help girls in the local sex industry.

“The government should curb the practice by arresting tourists whose aim is to engage in sex with children and dump them afterward,” she said. “They are creating more poverty for young people here like me.”

Editor's note: The last names of children interviewed for this story have been withheld to protect their identities. Tonny Onyulo reported from Mombasa, Kenya.

"

| child | trade | booming | this | Kenyan | port | city | Inside | tiny | house outside | Mombasa | Indian | Ocean | coast | Kenya | year | Sabina | sits | breasts | exposed | back | p> < | div>With | effortless | click | girl | shoots | saliva | through | between | front | teeth | lands | floor | Then | begins | talk | shifts | toddler | from | bosom | p> “The | father | German | tourist | said | “He | impregnated | left | country | after | vacation | forced | drop | school | take | care | ”< | p> Sabina | among | many | children | coastal | region | have | become | mothers | young | other | girls | well | underage | boys | cater | women | them | p> And | market | booming: | Child | tourism | remained | rampant | despite | spate | terror | attacks | past | three | years | that | scared | away | package | vacationers | crippling | vital | sector | contributes | about | percent | Kenya’s | gross | domestic | product | p> European | travelers | especially | continued | fuel | Many | come | search | aged | industry | made | worlds | hubs | researchers | p> “We | always | believe | white | money | when | they | here | hope | will | poverty | “They | give | sleep | with | rent | parents | food | p> Trace | local | nonprofit group | works | United | Nations | battle | trafficking | estimates | there | could | workers | extends | down | seaside | resort | towns | Malindi | Diani | according | p> In | 2010 | report | most | recent | available | UNICEF | released | numbers | revealed | almost | third | younger | were | involved | prostitution | European | comprise | half | clients | p> Sex | been | blamed | increasing | rates | dropouts | illiteracy | skip | class | pursuit | easy | same | time | main | driver | behind | experts | Some | even | urge | their | p> Emily | orphan | into | business | peer | pressure | aunt | encouraged | engage | help | family | expenses | Emily | infected | p> “I | slept | different | whites | Germany | Italy | “I | regret | option | [at] | started | friend | connected | Italian | visited | months | nothing | nowhere | p> Teenage | something | known | beach | also | hook | older | usually | Western | tourists | flown | specifically | sexual | encounters | p> Against | backdrop | dazzlingly | sand | aquamarine | Jomo | Kenyatta | Public | Beach | foreign | cocktails | under | bamboo | shades | Young | approach | compliments | designed | break | p> “This | work | Alex | Mwalumba | he’s | looks | much | “It’s | very | simple | lure | woman | First | know | language | speaks | Secondly | tell | beautiful | ever | seen | first | truly | believes | desirable | p> Mwalumba | regrets | begin | flow | referring | payments | once | temporary | relationship | begun | “Some | [beach | boys] | used | opportunity | build | good | houses | start | businesses | p> But | warned | sometimes | risky | p> “Some | either | being | robbed | murdered | noted | “Beach | love | They | sometime | trick | room | p> Paul | Adhoch | heads | rights | organization | Trace | increase | unwanted | pregnancies | sexually | transmitted | diseases | teenagers | broken | families | working | rescue | practice | rescued | more | than | last | seven | putting | shelters | making | arrangements | earn | living | those | potentially | likely | fall | number | lower | “The | police | done | little | fight | vice | given | impunity | having | evidence | against | Regional | Police | Chief | Nelson | Marwa | says | government | including | warning | place | laws | deal | such | acts | “Already | arrested | charged | some | close | hotels | allow | check | together | licenses | canceled | p> The | real | problem | culture | p> “There | yourself | then | gotten | “Tourists | advantage | deliberately | still | struggling | terms | positive | status | wants | should | curb | arresting | whose | dump | afterward | creating | people | like | p> Editors | note: | names | interviewed | story | withheld | protect | identities | Tonny | Onyulo | reported | em>< | p> |

Thank U Very Very Much for Read this Blog