Valentines Day Red Lingerie Every Women Should Own

Valentines Day Red Lingerie Every Women Should Own


With Valentine's Day scooting in closer, don't be deterred by the cliché campaigns advertising red-hot lingerie. Sometimes it's fun to forego our cotton bralettes for more intricate designs — whether you're doing it for yourself or for a partner. Think of this less as a time to reboot your underwear drawer, and more of a time to expand it with a few better basics. From full coverage cups to "yep, you can see literally everything when I wear this teddies," here's 17 non-cheesy red lingerie picks that'll suit every comfort level.


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Can YOU tell £280 lingerie from a £22 supermarket set?


Whether you're hoping to receive a beautiful lingerie gift for Valentine's Day, or the season simply puts you in the mood to replenish your underwear drawer, you'll no doubt be after something a bit more special than a sturdy and standard bra and briefs set. 
When it comes to buying lingerie, everywhere from high street chains to supermarkets and upmarket brands are making a play for your money, so is it really worth splashing the cash on a lingerie set that costs as much as a designer dress?
Model and TV presenter Heather Elrick, 27, from London gave her verdict on 12 styles for Femail, ranging from an £11 high street set to a luxury ensemble costing £280 - with surprising results. 
Heather didn't know how much each set cost or the brand it came as she tried it on, and only discovered the price after she'd shared her thoughts.
While good quality lace and satin are a marker of quality, her verdict shows that you shouldn't discount cheaper brands - even if you're after something special.  

Model and TV presenter Heather Elrick, 27, from London put 12 styles to the test for Femail, but can you tell the designer sets from the high street styles? 


Arista Cupped Bra and Brief, Loveday London £280

A luxury set featuring intricately gold corded lace and matt sand Italian Lambskin leather with a classic shape to enhances the silhouette, while providing uplift and support.

Heather's first impression 

I fell in love with this set before I’d even tried it on! It looked luxurious and high quality, and once I’d tried it on - it did not disappoint. 
Fitting perfectly, and providing fantastic support, the delicate lining and soft trimming also meant it felt lightweight and comfortable. 

Verdict on price

I had a feeling this was an expensive set. It’s more than I have paid for before for underwear but it still stands as a firm favourite. 


Rating: 5/5



Heather models the Arista Cupped Bra and Brief, Loveday London £280. The bra and briefs feature luxury gold corded lace and Italian lambskin leather panelling 


The luxury set costs £280, but despite the hefty price tag it was Heather's firm favourite 


Fiore Padded Plunge Bra and Shorts by Lepel from Figleaves, £40

A padded underwired plunge bra in floral lace with contrasting embroidery and matching shorts in a sheer mesh fabric with intricate floral embroidery, corset style side detail and bow centre.

Heather's first impressions

Girly and sweet, the bra of this pairing was moulded to fit well and give great support. The little lace appliqué was cute, however it was slightly itchy. 
The knickers, although seamless and smooth, felt a little flimsy. I’m guessing high street.

Verdict on price 

Slightly more than I expected it to cost, I personally wouldn’t spend £40 on this set.


Rating: 3/5



Heather wearing the Fiore Padded Plunge Bra and Shorts by Lepel, available from Figleaves. She was impressed by the fit of the lacy bra from the £40 set 


While Heather was pleased with the support of the bra, she found it slightly itchy and said the matching shorts felt a little flimsy 


F&F Signature Lace Trim Silk Plunge Bra and Lace Trim Silk Brazilian Briefs, Tesco, £22

The rose gold plunge bra offers complete support with supersoft, underwired cups adorned with a pretty pale pink-cream lace appliqué. Matching briefs made from premium silk with a touch of stretch feature a floral lace insert to the front.

Heather's first impressions

Another cute colour, the dusty pink caught my eye. I wasn’t a big fan of the lace trimming, it was a bit too much for me on the bra, but the knickers were lovely. It fit nicely and there was nothing bad to say about the quality - however it just wasn’t a front runner for me. 
Verdict on price: I initially gave it two out of five but I'd bump it up to a three because of the cost. It's good quality for price.

Rating: 3/5 


Heather shows off F&F Signature Lace Trim Silk Plunge Bra and Lace Trim Silk Brazilian Briefs from Tesco, £22


Heather felt there was too much lace trim on the bra, but was impressed by the comfort and fit of the matching briefs 


Harper non-padded full support bra and Brazilian briefs, Boux Avenue, £46

A strappy full support balconette bra with lace cups and mesh trim. Comes with matching Brazilian briefs with scalloped detail

Heather's first impression

This was my second joint favourite, mainly due to the bra. I was pleasantly surprised to see something slightly different design-wise with the bra from the rest of the choices, and once on, couldn’t stop looking in the mirror at it! 
It felt pretty but sexy and the material was soft and it was a lot more comfortable than it looked. Again, great support and the knickers were also delicate and fit well. 

Verdict on price

A great price for what could definitely have been more expensive. I’d definitely buy this set.

Rating: 5/5 


Heather in the Harper non-padded full support bra and Brazilian briefs from Boux Avenue, £46



Tease Underwired Bra and Tie Side Brief, Figleaves, £46




A non-padded underwired bra with lace covered cups and satin straps, and the matching medium coverage briefs tie at the side for a cheeky twist. 


Heather's first impressions

I adored the bra of this set; I don’t usually buy bras without padding or a lined cup, but this provided great support and shape and the lace was really pretty. 
However, the bottoms let this set down, as although the side-tie bows were cute; they weren’t practical and didn’t fit well as the front gaped forward, no matter how I tied them. I’d say this was quite expensive, bra but let down by the bottoms. 

Verdit on price 

I’d actually pay this for the bra alone as it was well worth it, I thought it would be more expensive than this so I’m pleasantly surprised.

Rating: 3/5 


Heather sporting the Tease Underwired Bra and Tie Side Brief from Figleaves, £46. She felt the bottoms let the set down as they weren't a comfortable fit 


Heather was impressed by the quality of the bra and would have paid more than £46 for this element alone 




Burgandy Daisy Lace Balcony Bra and briefs,





Peacocks, £11




The £7 bra features an all over lace design and adjustable straps 

Heather's first impression

Although I liked the colour of this set, it wasn’t a favourite. With light padding and a great moulded cup shape, it fit well. 
However it felt slightly cheaper than some of the others, and the lace wasn’t the most delicate looking or feeling. 
The same with the knickers, although they fit well - they just felt slightly cheap. It's a two out of five from me. 

Verdict on price

Extremely well priced, which bumps up the rating. I was right about it feeling slightly cheap but for that price and the fit it’s not too bad overall.

Rating: 3/5 


Heather wears a Burgundy bra and briefs set from Peacocks, £11. Although she initially questioned the quality, Heather concluded it was a good buy for such a low price 



Pamela Loves Coco de Mer Lucky Plunge Bra and Lucky Bikini Brief, Coco de Mer, £105


Underwired to provide support and uplift strategically placed lace draws the eye to the curves, while subtly veiling the bust

Heather's first impression 

Beautiful and sensual - this one made me feel sexy but I just didn’t feel that secure in it. 
The bra was stunning and the bottoms were very daring also. It felt expensive but the comfort levels were a downside.

Verdict on price

Although it costs more than high street, I did think this would be even more expensive than it is.


Rating 3/5 





Lovehoney Flirty Underwired Plunge Bra Red £20.98




Padded half-cups and a plunge neckline to accentuate the cleavage, while the matching shorts offer full coverage with a sheer finish,

Heather's first impression 


This was a very sexy little number, the devilish red however, came across a little cheap for me. 
It was very thin but fit well and gave more support than I thought it would. Although I don’t dislike it, it’s an overall 2/5 for me. 

Verdict on price

Not surprised at the price of this one, and again I’d bump the rating due to its great fit for the price.

Rating: 3/5 


Heather wearing the Lovehoney Flirty Underwired Plunge Bra Red £20.98. She felt the colour was a bit too loud but was impressed by the level of support for the price 


Soft Monroe Bra Black and Knicker, Pom Lampson, £83

A transparent lace bra with a silk chiffon band, inspired by the timeless elegance and glamour of the 1950s. The brand claims it's ideal for larger cup sizes, even though it's not underwired.  

Heather's first impression

I liked the lace and satin-like feels of this one, I can’t quite decide if it’s satin or not, but either way it’s a great feel. 
Simple but sexy, this fit seamlessly but didn’t give the best support with the bra. I’d say it’s mid-range between high street and designer 

Verdict on price 

The price confirms for me that is was great quality, a tad more expensive than I thought but worth it in my opinion.

Rating 4/5 


Heather modelling the Soft Monroe Bra Black and Knicker by Pom Lampson, £83


Although Heather felt the bra didn't offer the best support she was still impressed by the quality. The set was one of her favourites, gaining a four out of five rating 




Leona Black Balcony Bra and brief, Fantasie, £56



An underwired bra with moulded cups and scalloped lace trim to provide extra coverage, while the brief has the same semi-sheer panelling and pretty floral detailing

Heather's first impression

Even though this gave great support and fit amazingly, I just felt very frumpy in it. The shape of the cups was slightly pointy and I don’t feel it was the most flattering. 
The same with the bottoms, they were a great fit but just a bit too frumpy for me.

Verdict on price

More than I thought it would cost, but if you’re mostly interested in a great fit and support then it’s worth it.

Rating: 3/5 because of the fit 


Heather wearing the Leona Black Balcony Bra and brief, Fantasie, £56. Although she was impresed by the fit, she said the style made her feel somewhat frumpy 



Arabella Bra and Briefs, Something Wicked, £244


A bra with gold threaded French lace adorning the silk covered cups with soft picot edge elastic, while the briefs feature a gold threaded lace motif surrounded by soft powermesh.

Heather's first impression

This was almost a favourite, however was only let down by one thing. This felt expensive and designer - it was stunning. I felt glamorous and womanly in it and think the shape and cut of the high waisted pants was extremely flattering. 
However the cups felt like they pressed down and weren’t the best shaped. It was still absolutely beautiful. 

Verdict on price

I was right about it being expensive, it definitely felt it. I just wish the cups had been a better fit.

Rating 4/5 


Heather models the Arabella Bra and Briefs by Something Wicked, £244. It was almost a favourite, but Heather felt the cups of the bra weren't the most flattering shape 


F&F Signature Rae Lace Balcony Bra and briefs, Tesco, £15

Balcony cups with a delicate scalloped edge lace overlay offer a rounded, lifted effect with full underwired support.

Heather's first impression

The thick band of the bra on this set was comfortable and supportive and gave a nice lift. However I wasn’t impressed with the knickers, they weren’t the most comfortable or best fitting and dug in meaning they weren’t very flattering. Maybe high street? 

Verdict on price

Another one where I’d purchase the set just for the bra at that price, well priced - just still let down by the knickers.

Rating: 2/5


Heather wears F&F Signature Rae Lace Balcony Bra and briefs by Tesco, £15. She was impressed by the bra but felt the briefs let the set down 




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She may be aiding in the search to find her home country's next modeling phenom.  
But even in her forties, Heidi Klum is still at the top of her game.
The 44-year-old star absolutely smoldered in newly-released behind-the-scenes photographs to promote Germany's Next Top Model. 

Simply stunning: Heidi Klum absolutely smoldered in newly-released behind-the-scenes photographs to promote Germany's Next Top Model

Heidi looked to still be at the top of her game as she sported all types of skimpy swimwear to promote the upcoming 13th season of the reality show.

She showed off her flawless physique in neutral-colored two-pieces including a white bikini which she teamed with matching strappy heels.
The model also posed in a black bikini featuring a bandeau top and high-waisted shorts with matching heels.

Darkside: The 44-year-old model ooked to still be at the top of her game as she sported all types of skimpy swimwear to promote the upcoming 13th season of the reality show


Big production: There were several people on set to aid in the shooting of the promotional footage


Goddess: She absolutely scintillated while posing on a balcony


Catching rays: She showed of her fantastic figure in the two-piece 

Her blonde locks were worn down as she accentuated her natural features with complimentary make-up. 
Heidi struck a pose in several different places including a deck by the water, on a balcony, and inside of a pool. 
The former Victoria's Secret Angel is definitely a multimedia star as she was filmed and also posed for the sultry snaps.

Stunning: Her blonde locks were worn down as she accentuated her natural features with complimentary make-up


All love: She happily posed with one of the crewmembers 


Lovely lady: She swam in the water for more sultry shots


Gorgeous: No doubt it was a fun day on set 

Germany's Next Top Model returns for season 13 on Thursday, February 8. 
No doubt it is an interesting time in Heidi's life as she is said to have rung in the New Year in Bali, Indonesia with the 31-year-old art curator according to a report in the latest issue of Star Magazine.
Dailymail.com reached out to Heidi's reps and her publicist has no comment on the matter.

Like what you see? The German model seemed to be very involved with the shoot


Daring: She wore all types of swimwear


Coming soon: Germany's Next Top Model returns for season 13 on Thursday, February 8

However according to the tabloid weekly, the former lovers welcomed 2018 together at the Nihi Sumba Resort.
It may not be the happiest of love stories though, as some close to the Project Runway star have expressed reservations about the reconciliation according to Star.
'The last thing anyone wants to see is Heidi reuniting with Vito,' an friend to the German supermodel told the magazine. 'But she always goes running back to him.'

On the go: She was spotted on the Los Angeles set of Germany's Top Model on Friday


Casual cool: She rocked low-cut black top tucked into jeans, and black suede heels


Yum: Heidi looked like she had just grabbed food from catering 

This comes after their most recent split back in September.
At the time, Heidi confirmed the news to People after DailyMail.com reported in mid September that the two are 'taking time apart.'
A source told DailyMail.com on September 13 that there was 'trouble in paradise.'
Heidi was married to Kiss From A Rose singer Seal for nine years as they share four children together. 

Booty shot: The blonde also flaunted her derriere in this selfie she posted on Instagram in the early hours of Monday morning, captioned, succinctly, 'Cheeky'


Back together? Heidi is said to have rung in the New Year with ex Vito Schnabel after their split in September according to Star Magazine, as they are pictured together in New York last February


Leggy lady: According to the weekly, the two enjoyed a relaxing time at the Nihi Sumba Resort in Bali, Indonesia, as she pictured laying out in a tub on her balcony





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She recently had surgery on her back after battling a spinal issue for almost a decade.
But Ruby Rose proved she was on the mend as she shared a snap of herself recovering while enjoying a dinner party at a friend's house on Friday.
The Orange Is The New Black star, 31, dressed down in a 'gay power' slogan T-shirt and tartan pyjama bottoms for the casual Instagram selfie. 

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Recovering: Ruby Rose proved she was on the mend as she shared a snap of herself without her cane - after undergoing spinal surgery

Referencing the furnishings around her, she captioned the snap: 'Gay power and Gucci wallpaper.'
The brunette beauty, who has been pictured spotted with a walking stick at several red carpet over the past two weeks, ditched the aid for the shot.  

The star - who documented her struggles to buy Worcestershire sauce and ice for her pal's dinner gathering earlier in the day - seemed to be in good spirits.
The Pitch Perfect 3 star has been spending the last few weeks recovering from a gruelling spinal operation. 

Tough times: The Pitch Perfect 3 star has been spending the last few weeks recovering from a gruelling spinal operation and has been using a walking frame and cane (pictured) to get around


 Hidden pain: The Orange Is The New Black star revealed she has been battling a 'spine issue' for a decade 

Ruby first opened up about her decade-long battle with a 'spine issue' on Instagram last month.
Sharing a photo of herself sitting in a wheelchair, she said she'd decided to speak up about her condition before she was recognised out in public using the assistive transport device. 
'So... for the past few years (decade) I've been dealing with a spine issue,' she wrote to her 1.34 million followers.

Trauma: Last year, the brunette confessed her spinal issues stemmed from a car accident in her youth (pictured with girlfriend Jessica Origliasso in mid-January after her operation)

'I am now recovering from a back procedure, but I do need to stay active, so before I get seen with my cane and wheelchair in public, I'd rather put it out there that I'm fine and going to be fine.' 
Last year, the brunette confessed her spinal issues stemmed from a car accident in her youth.
Responding to comments about her appearance at a film premiere, she wrote to a fan on Twitter: 'I have a tilted posterior (it's why I have abs but no butt) and spinal curvature from a bad car accident.'

Explaining: Responding to comments about her appearance at a film premiere, she wrote to a fan on Twitter: 'I have a tilted posterior (it's why I have abs but no butt) and spinal curvature from a bad car accident'




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NYLON · 16 Lingerie Sets For Wherever Your V-Day Plans Take You

NYLON · 16 Lingerie Sets For Wherever Your V-Day Plans Take You


My version of “adulting” happened when I began to invest in expensive lingerie. Following a heart-shattering breakup, I suddenly began to spend the money usually reserved for clothing (at the time for me, this typically meant fast fashion pieces reflecting the trend of the moment) on lingerie sets and bodysuits from the likes of La Perla, Kiki de Montparnasse, and Stella McCartney (usually scoured at sample sales and discount department stores like Nordstrom Rack, though). Having lost a sense of self after being with someone for many years, it felt critical to my well-being to regain some autonomy back. For me, that translated to wearing stunning pieces of lingerie that no one would ever see. While it may seem trivial as a healing process, buying lingerie had begun, and continues to this day, to be part of my self-care routine.
All to say, regardless of whether you’re single, dating around, or in a serious relationship, there is something incredibly self-indulgent about wearing beautiful lingerie underneath all those layers of winter clothes—especially come Valentine’s Day. With that in mind, we rounded up our favorite sets of the season for wherever February 13th (hi, Galentine’s Day) or 14th finds you, be it out with girlfriends or on a hot and steamy date or at a bed-in boycott of the capitalist machine that tries to commodify love. And no, the following sets are not only from the luxe likes of Fleur du Mal and Agent Provocateur (even though there are those, too). Instead, we’re featuring plenty of beautiful pieces that will not only not hurt your wallet, but also will have you feeling like the queen you are:
Ahead, our picks.


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Cherokee Nation OKs same-sex marriage

Story highlights

• Brittany Nunley and Kelli King were surprised and pleased with the opinion
• Cherokee Nation law enacted in 2004 has banned same-sex marriage

A ban on same-sex marriage involving members of the Cherokee Nation was overturned by the tribe's attorney general in an opinion issued Friday.

King called her girlfriend, Brittany Nunley, who is Cherokee and shared the good news.

"I think its awesome," Nunley told CNN. "I have been really proud of my Cherokee heritage and to be able to get a marriage license is just awesome."

King, who said the couple met at a church softball game about four and half years ago, said she was excited to hear about the ruling.

"This is just another way we can incorporate her heritage into our lives and are thankful for opportunity," King said.

Attorney General Todd Hembree's opinion specifically says two sections of the 2004 Cherokee Nation Marriage and Family Act are unconstitutional.

He said the tribe's constitution protects certain fundamental rights, among them the right to marry.

"The constitution affords these rights to all Cherokee citizens, regardless of sexual orientation and the Cherokee Nation, or any subdivision, must recognize validly issued civil unions, same-sex marriages, and same-sex domestic partnerships from other jurisdictions," the opinion says.

The US Supreme Court ruled by a 5-4 vote in June 2015 that states cannot ban same-sex marriage.

Nunley said after it became legal in Oklahoma in 2014 and then nationwide through the landmark Supreme Court decision, she wondered whether the Cherokee Nation would also reverse itself.

"I was really excited and really proud to be a Cherokee. Like my nation is doing something for all its people," she said from her home in Locust Grove, about 20 minutes from the tribe's headquarters in Tahlequah.

Marriage is definitely in their future, King said. It's been discussed in the past but they wanted to wait for it to be legal.

"It's probably not too far off now," she said.

Nunley said she's just waiting for someone to pop the question.

The man who was chief in 2004 told the Tulsa World newspaper that he supported Hembree's opinion.

"It was adhering to past Cherokee law," Chad Smith said, explaining why he signed the law 12 years ago. "But our constitution incorporates the provisions of the US Constitution, and the Supreme Court (of the United States) has since made its ruling."

A member of the tribal council disagreed with the decision and told the newspaper that he expected the council would still support the 2004 law.

"We'll have to get together and talk about it," Don Garvin told the newspaper.

The Cherokee Nation website says that with more than 317,000 citizens, it is the largest sovereign tribal nation in the United States.

CNN's Mayra Cuevas contributed to this report.

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Why Arkansas same-sex parents won't be listed on a child's birth certificate

Arkansas same-sex parents will not be listed on their children’s birth certificates, the state’s highest court ruled on Thursday. The decision has raised questions about equal protection, and the state may still change its approach.

The ruling by a four-member majority of the Arkansas Supreme Court determined that only biological parents can be listed on a child’s birth certificate. It overturns last year’s decision by a lower court that married same-sex couples could automatically have both spouses listed as parents. 

For the state Supreme Court, it’s simply a question of biology. At the same time, marriage allows different-sex couples to be listed as parents, and the US Supreme Court’s ruling on gay marriage may mean that now applies to same-sex couples too. And the debate is complicated by state laws that require parentage to be tracked.

“It is clear that including both married spouses’ names â€" regardless of whether they are same-sex or opposite sex â€" on a child’s birth certificate is exactly the kind of benefit of marriage that the U.S. Supreme Court ruled should be extended to same-sex couples,” Kate Oakley, senior legislative counsel for the Human Rights Campaign, said in a press release.

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That was the approach taken by Little Rock Circuit Judge Tim Fox in December 2015. Three same-sex couples brought a case arguing that the legalization of same-sex marriage gave same-sex parents the same rights to be identified as parents on their children’s birth certificates that different-sex parents already enjoyed. 

For parents, being named on a child’s birth certificate is important for all kinds of reasons, as LGBT news source The Advocate described. Without this legitimization, parents may struggle to put children on their health insurance or even pick them up from school.

When they won their suit, the three couples were granted the right to list the names of both partners on the birth certificates. But the state appealed the decision on the grounds that it was causing legal and logistical problems. Several days after the initial ruling, the Arkansas Supreme Court stayed the decision, preventing it from being extended to other couples.

One possible reason for the issues: birth certificates are woven into legislation and Health Board protocol in the state of Arkansas. Identifying biological parents is an “important governmental objective,” wrote Arkansas Supreme Court Associate Justice Josephine Linker Hart in the majority opinion, explaining that knowing who parents are allows the state to track public health trends and give children genetic information that they might need for medical reasons later on.

But different-sex Arkansas parents aren’t required to prove that they are the biological parents of the child, perhaps limiting the value of state tracking â€" and raising questions about unequal treatment of same-sex parents.

"There's no requirement that DNA be given or that there be a biological relationship to a child to get on a birth certificate for a father, for the non-birth parent," said Cheryl Maples, who sued on behalf of the three couples, the Associated Press reported.

“The inclusion of a parent's name on a child's birth certificate is a benefit associated with and flowing from marriage," wrote Arkansas Associate Justice Paul Danielson in the dissenting opinion.

The decision may have provided an impetus for the state to make some changes to the law.

“It is time to heed the call” to make changes heralded by decisions like Obergefell v. Hodges, which established the right to same-sex marriage, said Arkansas Chief Justice Howard Brill, according to NBC.

And though some state officials pronounced the state “gratified” that the court had chosen to uphold state law, they suggested that lawmakers might be willing to consider changes. Arkansas has so far been reluctant to amend its laws.

“If any changes are appropriate, it is the job of legislators to do so, not the circuit court,” said Judd Deere, a spokesman for Arkansas Attorney General Leslie Rutledge, AP reported.

As it stands, the ruling would require same-sex parents to obtain a court order if they want both spouses to be listed on a child’s birth certificate. Ms. Maples told AP that she has not yet decided whether to appeal to the US Supreme Court.

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Bad Sex in Fiction Awards ceremony celebrates 24th year

“It’s terribly British, isn’t it,” said the man next to me at last night’s Bad Sex in Fiction Awards ceremony at the (appropriately named) In and Out Club in St James’s. He was referring, of course, to the yearly bash â€" now in its 24th year â€" in which the Literary Review magazine nominates half a dozen passages from contemporary fiction seen to represent sex at its most cringeworthy, reads them out to champagne-infused guffaws, and then awards a prize to the author of the worst.

It is a terribly British event, but it also provides a snarky satisfaction that transcends nationality. Because for anyone with the sneaking suspicion that the sexual act is better done or seen than artistically described â€" that its complex idiosyncrasy is one of the few things that lie outside the remit of the otherwise resourceful English language â€" the Bad Sex Awards hits its mark.

Yet as the entrants this year make clear, writing about sex with flagrant abominableness is still cheerily far from going out of fashion. Hearty examples were a passage from Blue Peter presenter Janet Ellis’s The Butcher’s Hook:

When his hand goes to my breasts, my feet are envious. I slide my hands down his back, all along his spine, rutted with bone like mud ridges in a dry field, to the audacious swell below.

“Audacious swell”? Quite.

Then there was the American Gayle Forman’s entry, from Leave Me:

They were in that room, Jason had slammed the door and devoured her with his mouth, his hands, which were everywhere. As if he were ravenous. And she remembered standing in front of him, her dress a puddle on the floor, and how she’d started to shake, her knees knocking together, like she was a virgin, like this was the first time.

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But the gong went to the Italian poet and translator Erri De Luca for The Day Before Happiness (de Luca understandably wasn’t present). “My prick was a plank stuck to her stomach,” the Neapolitan was justly rebuked for writing:

With a swerve of her hips, she turned me over and I was on top of her … I was her plaything, which she moved around. Our sexes were ready, poised in expectation, barely touching each other: ballet dancers hovering en pointe.

Not everyone felt this deserved the award â€" as an American woman nearby remarked to me, this could clearly be read as satire, plain and simple. Perhaps, but satire doesn’t necessarily get you home dry, especially when it’s ambiguous. After all, the book, a coming of age story, is not particularly comic in the way that, for instance, the early sex-mad tomes of Philip Roth and Martin Amis were.

In fact, the awards were conceived not to discourage writing about sex, but to discourage writing about sex badly. The wording of the original mission statement in 1993 by Auberon Waugh, then editor of the Literary Review, is revealing: the bash was to “draw attention to poorly written, perfunctory or redundant passages of sexual description in modern fiction”.

It would be helpful to have some guidance on what non-redundant, good sex writing looks like, since it’s not entirely clear whether it can exist in a literary form at all. After all, the most sexually charged novels of the last 100 or so years use the rule of thumb that the act is unmentionable, boring, or best only suggested.

The novels of Dickens, Eliot and Trollope are full of sexual yearning, and their emotional and erotic pull are none the worse for the veiled references to kissing and love. Even in 20th century novels with subject matter devoted to romantic entanglements, the sexual act is not necessarily spelled out or even mentioned â€" Iris Murdoch doesn’t go further than “making love” as an account of the nocturnal activities of her highly sexually charged couple Dora and Paul in The Bell (1958).

And while Margaret Drabble’s super-sexy characters Clara and Gabriel get pretty steamy in Jerusalem the Golden, nothing beyond the fact is spelled out. It’s a blessed relief which does nothing to diminish the profoundly saucy atmosphere of the book.

The awards are also a humorous reminder not just of the imaginative power but also of the literary value of discipline and restraint in matters of bonking. A recent book about prime minster Herbert Asquith’s passionate attachment to Venetia Stanley tells of his thousands of letters to her, all passionately headed with variants of “my own darling” and “darlingest”.

Asquith’s desperate fixation with Stanley pours out from every page, but had he indulged in anything more sexually explicit than the desire to “go for a little drive, or will you come to Downing St & have a talk”, it would hardly have helped, and probably only hindered, the accumulated intensity of his fixation. Voluble lusters: take note.

Zoe Strimpel, PhD Candidate, University of Sussex

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Porn, Sex And Marriage: What's OK, And What Isn't? : NPR

Warning: Today's post deals with sexual content and may not be appropriate for all audiences.

Dear Sugar Radio is a weekly podcast from member station WBUR. Hosts Steve Almond and Cheryl Strayed offer "radical empathy" and advice on everything from relationships and parenthood to dealing with drug problems or anxiety.

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Today they're delving into the adult topics of pornography and masturbation. A man says he masturbates regularly while watching pornography but still maintains a healthy sexual relationship with his wife. But he is still "troubled" by the notion that the porn industry is exploitative of performers, and questions whether it is morally acceptable to fantasize about women other than his wife.

To help in their discussion of these topics, the Sugars are joined by Wendy Maltz, sex therapist and co-author of The Porn Trap.

Dear Sugars,

Is it bad to masturbate to online porn? I am a happily married man in my mid-50s, and have been married for 15 years to a wonderful woman. We have a satisfying sex life, having sex approximately once every week.

However, I go online to masturbate to porn about three times a week. I work from home and find that I become sexually turned on during the working day. I look at masturbation as a healthy release. Viewing online porn allows me to accomplish the "task" more quickly and get back to work.

That other purveyor of personal wisdom, Dr. Phil, advises that watching porn is an immoral betrayal of a marital partner and says the women in porn videos are likely to have been abused as children and are being exploited. I have a teenage daughter and avoid videos of young girls, preferring age-appropriate subjects in the so-called "mature" category. I also avoid watching porn up to 24 hours before I am likely to have a date with my wife in order to be able to enjoy and contribute to our sex together.

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My wife knows that I look at porn. While we don't discuss it, she doesn't feel that it is a betrayal of her. I look at viewing porn as an extension of masturbation, which I believe is healthy and a necessary release, one that is as private as going to the bathroom. If not for porn, I would still masturbate. I doubt Dr. Phil believes that masturbation is immoral. Is masturbating while fantasizing about someone besides my wife immoral? Assuming that online porn is the problem, is it possible that you can make distinctions?

I know that many of the women on porn sites are probably psychologically damaged in some way, and that the pornography industry may be contributing to that damage. On the other hand, is it possible that accepting money for video sex is not always exploitative? Is it possible that some of the women who perform in online sex videos do it out of a healthy appreciation of sex?

Signed,

Troubled by Porn

Steve Almond: I could have written this letter, and I felt a great sense of sympathy for this guy who's trying to figure out the same questions I struggle with when I bother to even struggle with them: Am I complicit in something that is very clearly against my moral code? In what ways? And what are my other alternatives?

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I think he is in a productive state of bewilderment, and I think most of the men of conscience who consume porn in one way or another are either suppressing this set of questions or are struggling with them. The porn industry is like football or like meat or like fossil fuels â€" it's essentially exploitative. But because I have a libido that operates differently than my wife's, I get horny and I want relief. I lament that I no longer sit there and do the imaginative work of masturbating without porn. There are a lot of people who aren't even grappling with the ways in which pornography is an ethical concern because, frankly, people don't want porn served with a side dish of ethics.

Wendy Maltz: I have a lot of respect for the man who wrote this letter. He's really thinking about his relationship to porn and trying to figure it out. He doesn't have the secrecy and shame element going on that a lot of people have with porn. But there's something happening â€" he's starting to question it. I can't say if his porn use in particular is a good thing or a bad thing. It's so personal. People have ask themselves, "What does porn mean to me? What is it doing to me? Where's it taking me?"

Cheryl Strayed: What do you mean when you say "Where's it taking me?" Do you mean to suggest that, in some ways, his porn use could be robbing his marriage of a sort of intimacy that it might have if he didn't use it?

Wendy: Porn is a very powerful product. It's like nothing we've ever seen before. There's a conditioning process associated with porn. It can become a stronger habit. Our sexual arousal response gets patterned to particular cues, and those cues can be the images in porn or they can be the smell of a lover's neck. Images are very powerful, so porn could be affecting the intimacy he has with his wife in ways he's not even aware of. He says porn is not an issue in his marriage, but he and his wife aren't really talking about its place in their relationship either.

Steve: There's a kind of "don't-ask-don't-tell" policy when it comes to porn in relationships. Pornography, predominantly for men, is a little secret cavern â€" it's a place we go, even if we're in happy, deeply communicative relationships, as it seems this guy is.

Cheryl: Part of my response to this letter is that there's nothing wrong. This guy wants to have an orgasm about four times a week. Presumably, if his wife wanted to have sex more, she would be making advances towards him. And he has a different sex drive than she does, and so he just takes care of himself. He doesn't need to tell his wife. There is such thing as privacy, even when you're married to somebody. Wendy, is this inherently a bad setup, or are you thinking, well clearly, because he's asking these questions, he's not entirely comfortable with it?

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Wendy: From a clinical perspective, we're not talking about someone who is disassociated or who uses porn in lieu of sex, but there's something going on for him â€" he signed his letter "Troubled by Porn." One of the things that I wonder about is, why does he use porn a lot while he's working? Is sexual release a way of dealing with stress for him? Maybe he's not feeling as productive or as recognized in his field as he'd like to be? Has porn become a way that he self-soothes? And if so, is that at the expense of learning other ways to take care of himself â€" reaching out to a real person or going for a run?

The other thing is his age. Being a man in his mid-50s, it can take a little longer to get sexually aroused. The erections aren't as firm. Sex can become a little bit more laborious in terms of functioning, but under usual circumstances, that's offset by really good communication with a partner you've been with for years.

Cheryl: Or by a sense of humor â€" that sex doesn't have to be a performance. It doesn't always have to equal orgasm. It's a sensual exchange of pleasure and communication.

Wendy: And there's this wonderful growth that a couple can have. I've been married for nearly 40 years now, but I had a rough beginning as a sexual person. I've now experienced what it's like to be in a long-term relationship where you don't have a heavy influence of porn and where you can really work with your partner and learn with your partner and grow with your partner sexually. I think a lot of couples are missing out on that growth.

Steve: Troubled by Porn, you've reached a moment where you have to ask yourself, "What is the meaning of porn for me? And if I'm unsettled, do I need to start having the difficult, but necessary, discussion with my wife to say, 'I feel greater desire and I want it to be toward you. I want to find a better balance between my porn use and our sex life together.' "

You can get more advice from the Sugars each week on >Dear Sugar Radio from WBUR. Listen to the full episode to hear more about how porn can affect relationships.

Have a question for the Sugars? Email dearsugarradio@gmail.com and it may be answered on a future episode.

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